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Old 07-25-10 | 10:18 AM
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...this comment so patently ridiculous.

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The movie was good but it was not great and I don't know why Ruffalo was made out to be
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the bad guy when it takes two to tango. Typical lesbian thinking I guess
Far be from me to rush to some romantic defense of alternative lifestyles. I'll leave that to others. However, even attributing that to "lesbian thinking" is nonsense.

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Pretend Bening was a man. Ruffalo is still going to be the bad guy. Yes, it takes two to tango but one of the two is a woman that Bening has loved and cherished for 20 years, created a home and life and raised two children with. The other is some guy that a month earlier none of them had ever met who has inserted himself (albeit with invitation) into almost every element of their lives, including relationships with their children, her spouse's work and, ultimately, her spouse's vagina.

One has some chance of being forgiven. The other has no chance at all. Them being lesbians has nothing to do with it.
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Originally Posted by jfoobar
...this comment so patently ridiculous.



Far be from me to rush to some romantic defense of alternative lifestyles. I'll leave that to others. However, even attributing that to "lesbian thinking" is nonsense.

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Pretend Bening was a man. Ruffalo is still going to be the bad guy. Yes, it takes two to tango but one of the two is a woman that Bening has loved and cherished for 20 years, created a home and life and raised two children with. The other is some guy that a month earlier none of them had ever met who has inserted himself (albeit with invitation) into almost every element of their lives, including relationships with their children, her spouse's work and, ultimately, her spouse's vagina.

One has some chance of being forgiven. The other has no chance at all. Them being lesbians has nothing to do with it.

I agree with you entirely on this one.

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It's all too common when someone's partner has had an infidelity that the anger and blame is shifted heavily on the outsider. This happens regardless of gender.

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I'm extremely disappointed that there isn't a single theater in my area showing this film.
Old 07-25-10 | 12:06 PM
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Originally Posted by Blu Man
I'm extremely disappointed that there isn't a single theater in my area showing this film.
I am fortunate to have a suburban theater nearby that goes out of its way to show more independent fare along with the typical multiplex crap. Otherwise, I would have had to go into downtown DC or Bethesda to see it this weekend.

Hopefully the word of mouth will get this a wider release shortly, at least for a few short weeks.
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I thought this film was "all right", not amazingly great, but a nice look into what happens when the 2 kids, Joni (Mia Wasikowska) and Laser (Josh Hutcherson) from a lesbian couple, Nic (Annette Benning) and Jules (Julianne Moore) decide to look for their biological father, whose sperm was used to father a baby for Nic and Jules each. The biological father is Paul (Mark Ruffalo), and slowly after the kids meet Paul, the mothers meet with Paul, and things get complicated.

Performance-wise, a solid cast, though I'm not quite as high on the script as the positive word-of-mouth would indicate, but still a good film.

I give it 3 stars, or a grade of B.
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I like the film and the performances but didn't think they would go the way of
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the Lesbian fucking the sperm donor. Seemed a bit to contrived.
Would have liked it a lot better if they handn't done that but all in all I loved Benning and Moore.
Wasn't quite sure where the story of the kids friends were very interesting and didn't really come to a conclusion. Maybe that was the point?
I did like the speech at the end with Moore giving the speech to the family about how tough relationships can be. That rang very true

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Old 08-01-10 | 08:41 AM
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Saw this over the weekend. About 10 minutes into it, I realized I had read the screenplay a long time ago. It was interesting but it was not an A movie like the critics have stated.
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Originally Posted by jfoobar
...this comment so patently ridiculous.



Far be from me to rush to some romantic defense of alternative lifestyles. I'll leave that to others. However, even attributing that to "lesbian thinking" is nonsense.

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Pretend Bening was a man. Ruffalo is still going to be the bad guy. Yes, it takes two to tango but one of the two is a woman that Bening has loved and cherished for 20 years, created a home and life and raised two children with. The other is some guy that a month earlier none of them had ever met who has inserted himself (albeit with invitation) into almost every element of their lives, including relationships with their children, her spouse's work and, ultimately, her spouse's vagina.

One has some chance of being forgiven. The other has no chance at all. Them being lesbians has nothing to do with it.
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I completely agree that Benning's character would never have forgiven Ruffalo, but I didn't quite buy that both the kids would so completely turn against him.

I also really hated how in the last act his character just became a joke, getting shit on by everybody. I couldn't help but feel sorry for him... he was living a decent (and fun) life prior to the kids' intervention, then the kids show up. He gets a taste of something more meaningful, and it's yanked away (admittedly through partial fault of his own). He's now left sans-girlfriend (that he broke up with) and with two kids he never knew existed beforehand who he now likes/loves but has to live with knowing they hate his guts.

Benning was a total bitch for the entire movie who demonstrated few qualities that would make somebody want to endure a relationship with her, Moore willingly participated in (and initiated, IIRC) the affair when she was the one in the relationship, and Ruffalo gets the total shaft for it.
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I completely agree that Benning's character would never have forgiven Ruffalo, but I didn't quite buy that both the kids would so completely turn against him.

I also really hated how in the last act his character just became a joke, getting shit on by everybody. I couldn't help but feel sorry for him... he was living a decent (and fun) life prior to the kids' intervention, then the kids show up. He gets a taste of something more meaningful, and it's yanked away (admittedly through partial fault of his own). He's now left sans-girlfriend (that he broke up with) and with two kids he never knew existed beforehand who he now likes/loves but has to live with knowing they hate his guts.

Benning was a total bitch for the entire movie who demonstrated few qualities that would make somebody want to endure a relationship with her, Moore willingly participated in (and initiated, IIRC) the affair when she was the one in the relationship, and Ruffalo gets the total shaft for it.
That's why I praised the film for being honest.

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You should feel sorry for Ruffalo. He didn't deserve the end that he got, but that's how that fucked up situation would have ended in real life the majority of the time. Even the way he paced outside of the couple's home at the end was very accurate, swimming in emotion, his mind racing, trying to find some shred of something that will salvage things. There was simply no chance.
Old 11-17-10 | 01:11 PM
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Justed rent this one and loved.

I think Bening, Moore and Ruffalo all have a decent chance at an Oscar nomination.

I thought it was funny and well-written, and the actors all did a nice job, too.
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After Firehouse Dog, he had every opportunity available to him. It's a shame he had to pick this.
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After Firehouse Dog, he had every opportunity available to him. It's a shame he had to pick this.
Agree 100%.

Wait...what???
Old 02-14-11 | 12:54 PM
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Yet another movie which contains massive overtones of illuminant propaganda. The movie teaches us that lesbian family is the "modern" family. These women seem very unhappy and for good reason. The characters suffer from a mental disorder brought on by an overbearing father or mother, a distant effeminate father, or the most common factor in homosexual mental disorder, sadistic child abuse. Yes, in the seventies homosexuality was considered a mental disorder until the gay establishment forced the doctors to take this scientific info out of the textbooks. So, if you'd like to see the idea of the nuclear family destroyed and see what the Illuminati (and elders of the protocols of sion) want you to think about the "modern" family, than see this film. BTW, this is a well made movie and entertaining, so you will be entertained, but know what the real agenda and hidden messages are, hidden in plain site.
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Wrong forum. I think you're looking for this.
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Yet another movie which contains massive overtones of illuminant propaganda. The movie teaches us that lesbian family is the "modern" family. These women seem very unhappy and for good reason. The characters suffer from a mental disorder brought on by an overbearing father or mother, a distant effeminate father, or the most common factor in homosexual mental disorder, sadistic child abuse. Yes, in the seventies homosexuality was considered a mental disorder until the gay establishment forced the doctors to take this scientific info out of the textbooks. So, if you'd like to see the idea of the nuclear family destroyed and see what the Illuminati (and elders of the protocols of sion) want you to think about the "modern" family, than see this film. BTW, this is a well made movie and entertaining, so you will be entertained, but know what the real agenda and hidden messages are, hidden in plain site.

What the fuck!???
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Originally Posted by realitysammie
Yet another movie which contains massive overtones of illuminant propaganda. The movie teaches us that lesbian family is the "modern" family. These women seem very unhappy and for good reason. The characters suffer from a mental disorder brought on by an overbearing father or mother, a distant effeminate father, or the most common factor in homosexual mental disorder, sadistic child abuse. Yes, in the seventies homosexuality was considered a mental disorder until the gay establishment forced the doctors to take this scientific info out of the textbooks. So, if you'd like to see the idea of the nuclear family destroyed and see what the Illuminati (and elders of the protocols of sion) want you to think about the "modern" family, than see this film. BTW, this is a well made movie and entertaining, so you will be entertained, but know what the real agenda and hidden messages are, hidden in plain site.
Epic first post.

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Lesbians are tools of the Illuminati! Of course!
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Okay movie with some decent acting. But not oscar-worthy in any category, imo of course.
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guess realitysammie was a one hit wonder, eh?
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guess realitysammie was a one hit wonder, eh?
If there's a God in heaven.

And I agree with Jack Straw. This movie should not have been nominated for any Oscars. There is nothing special or memorable about it. It kills me it got nominated for Best Picture and "The Town" didn't.
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5/10 for me. the writing was magnetic and sharp, and the characters had an incredible build-up through-out, but i felt the film treated a few of the characters in such an unfair manner.

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in the end, Ruffalo's character was completely cut off from everybody with zero chance at redeeming himself, Julianne Moore is stuck being a complete nobody only to be dominated in relationship by Benning's mega-bitch of a character. my reasoning isn't dissolved from "lesbian thinking" or anything, i just feel that in the end, the film glorified some sort of failure in the two latter characters. i know they fucked up, but that doesn't mean Moore's character had to return to being just a person with dreams that'll never be accomplished. i never let films' endings ruin the film as a whole, but i couldn't help but feel pissed off. i think some will agree with what i consider a "mistreatment" against the two characters though, so to each his/her own.
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It kills me it got nominated for Best Picture and "The Town" didn't.

Agreed on the Best Picture nod... but "The Town" didn't deserve a Best Picture nomination either. Completely average and derivative in every respect.
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Agreed on the Best Picture nod... but "The Town" didn't deserve a Best Picture nomination either. Completely average and derivative in every respect.
Sorry, but I respectfully disagree. I think "The Town" was almost equally as great as "The Departed". And is 10,000 times better than "The Kids Are All Right".
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....The Town was good. It was well directed. It's direction is what had it going strong. The story was weak in some parts and that blonde cracked out girl wasn't all that great in her role. That's what stops it from being amazing. It's pretty good but it's not amazing.


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