Confrontation at Blockbuster - Shouting Match Erupts
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Re: Wait a minute...
Originally posted by SailorNeptune
Thats what I hate. Cartoons are NOT JUST FOR CHILDREN! Why is it when its an animated feature its automatically kiddie fare gimme a break? I have a lot of disney animated films, and I HAVE NO KIDS. I do agree that the person who argued over the 5 bucks is raising his blood pressure for nothing, but please get rid of that mentality that cartoons are just for kids please.
Thats what I hate. Cartoons are NOT JUST FOR CHILDREN! Why is it when its an animated feature its automatically kiddie fare gimme a break? I have a lot of disney animated films, and I HAVE NO KIDS. I do agree that the person who argued over the 5 bucks is raising his blood pressure for nothing, but please get rid of that mentality that cartoons are just for kids please.
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Re: Wait a minute...
Originally posted by SailorNeptune
Thats what I hate. Cartoons are NOT JUST FOR CHILDREN! Why is it when its an animated feature its automatically kiddie fare gimme a break? I have a lot of disney animated films, and I HAVE NO KIDS. I do agree that the person who argued over the 5 bucks is raising his blood pressure for nothing, but please get rid of that mentality that cartoons are just for kids please.
Thats what I hate. Cartoons are NOT JUST FOR CHILDREN! Why is it when its an animated feature its automatically kiddie fare gimme a break? I have a lot of disney animated films, and I HAVE NO KIDS. I do agree that the person who argued over the 5 bucks is raising his blood pressure for nothing, but please get rid of that mentality that cartoons are just for kids please.
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First off, he raised his voice at me first. I merely said he was lying to me, and that pissed him off. He started going into me, how nobody can call him a liar, even though he had been caught red-handed. So I responded, I am not going to cowtow to anyone lying and then yelling at me for calling it out.
Ask anybody about the price of Lion King at Circuit City that week. It was 14.99.
Ask anybody about the price of Lion King at Circuit City that week. It was 14.99.
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Re: Re: Wait a minute...
Originally posted by dvd-fanman
I would hardly consider The Lion King a "cartoon."
I would hardly consider The Lion King a "cartoon."
Sorry! I meant to say animated movie. Family entertainment. I am a fan of animation, and japanese anime. Shame on me!
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Originally posted by namlook
A more fun way to handle it would have been to start chanting "liar liar pants on fire..."
A more fun way to handle it would have been to start chanting "liar liar pants on fire..."
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Originally posted by badger1997
Videophile, it's one thing to be firm and "stick to your gun" but it's a whole other thing to start a shouting match in a public place over $5. You can stick to your guns, be firm and still be polite. Stooping down the manager's level is just sad and uneccessary. But if a person's dignity is worth $5, who am I to argue?
Videophile, it's one thing to be firm and "stick to your gun" but it's a whole other thing to start a shouting match in a public place over $5. You can stick to your guns, be firm and still be polite. Stooping down the manager's level is just sad and uneccessary. But if a person's dignity is worth $5, who am I to argue?
Perhaps that doesn't make me very "dignified"? It's the "principle" of it to me.
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Originally posted by Darq
If someone was giving me attitude and raising their voice at me (especially if they're wrong), you'll bet that i'd respond! Personally, i think it's more dignified to argue your (correct) point (whether it's over $5, $100 or even $0.50) than to walk away with your tail between your legs just because the other person decided to lie and raise their voice at you..
Perhaps that doesn't make me very "dignified"? It's the "principle" of it to me.
If someone was giving me attitude and raising their voice at me (especially if they're wrong), you'll bet that i'd respond! Personally, i think it's more dignified to argue your (correct) point (whether it's over $5, $100 or even $0.50) than to walk away with your tail between your legs just because the other person decided to lie and raise their voice at you..
Perhaps that doesn't make me very "dignified"? It's the "principle" of it to me.
If confronted with a belligerent, lying video store manager, I'd probably shake my head, walk out, and try not to give the guy or the business a further thought. To me, it just wouldn't be worth the continued hassle.
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Originally posted by Yakuza Bengoshi
Some provocations require a response, but not every one. If a visably disturbed street person called you out, you probably wouldn't respond, right? Some people and situations are simply beneath contempt.
If confronted with a belligerent, lying video store manager, I'd probably shake my head, walk out, and try not to give the guy or the business a further thought. To me, it just wouldn't be worth the continued hassle.
Some provocations require a response, but not every one. If a visably disturbed street person called you out, you probably wouldn't respond, right? Some people and situations are simply beneath contempt.
If confronted with a belligerent, lying video store manager, I'd probably shake my head, walk out, and try not to give the guy or the business a further thought. To me, it just wouldn't be worth the continued hassle.
So, in this situation, the lying manager would be causing me more hassles down the road. If i don't get this taken care of now, it will cost me more time later. Thus, he gets a piece of my mind.
But i do agree with you that some situations deserve a shake of the head only -- especially the YMMV deals. But i don't think this fits in the YMMV scope.
Last edited by Darq; 10-21-03 at 11:56 AM.
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Originally posted by chanster
First off, he raised his voice at me first. I merely said he was lying to me, and that pissed him off. He started going into me, how nobody can call him a liar, even though he had been caught red-handed. So I responded, I am not going to cowtow to anyone lying and then yelling at me for calling it out.
Ask anybody about the price of Lion King at Circuit City that week. It was 14.99.
First off, he raised his voice at me first. I merely said he was lying to me, and that pissed him off. He started going into me, how nobody can call him a liar, even though he had been caught red-handed. So I responded, I am not going to cowtow to anyone lying and then yelling at me for calling it out.
Ask anybody about the price of Lion King at Circuit City that week. It was 14.99.
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What a bunch of lightweights. I would have thrown the manager through the plate glass window, then gone outside and pushed his head through the drop-box slot. That would teach him.
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Originally posted by resinrats
What a bunch of lightweights. I would have thrown the manager through the plate glass window, then gone outside and pushed his head through the drop-box slot. That would teach him.
What a bunch of lightweights. I would have thrown the manager through the plate glass window, then gone outside and pushed his head through the drop-box slot. That would teach him.
Seriously, a lot of people are stating that they would just walk away all calm and cool and collected as the manager yelled at them and that this calm attitude would make the manager look like a bigger idiot. I know that you might feel that way as you sit at your computer right now typing the way YOU would react to the situation, but if you have some liar yelling in your face after giving you the run-around while your stress-level and adrenaline-level and frustration-level are rising, you "might" just react by yelling back in return.
In the heat of the moment, I believe chanster reacted about as calm as can be expected given the circumstances. (Somehow this thread is starting to sound like the people who want to fire/sue/condemn police officers who end up roughly handcuffing a murder suspect after following him of two-hour high speed pursuit. People react to the stimuli around them.) In chanster's case, nobody ended up in the hospital or in court. Just some bruised egos, perhaps.
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Originally posted by Franchot
Seriously, a lot of people are stating that they would just walk away all calm and cool and collected as the manager yelled at them and that this calm attitude would make the manager look like a bigger idiot. I know that you might feel that way as you sit at your computer right now typing the way YOU would react to the situation, but if you have some liar yelling in your face after giving you the run-around while your stress-level and adrenaline-level and frustration-level are rising, you "might" just react by yelling back in return.
Seriously, a lot of people are stating that they would just walk away all calm and cool and collected as the manager yelled at them and that this calm attitude would make the manager look like a bigger idiot. I know that you might feel that way as you sit at your computer right now typing the way YOU would react to the situation, but if you have some liar yelling in your face after giving you the run-around while your stress-level and adrenaline-level and frustration-level are rising, you "might" just react by yelling back in return.
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http://www.cnn.com/2003/HEALTH/10/21...eut/index.html
When I was reading this article, this thread came to mind
When I was reading this article, this thread came to mind
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Re: Wait a minute...
Originally posted by SailorNeptune
Thats what I hate. Cartoons are NOT JUST FOR CHILDREN! Why is it when its an animated feature its automatically kiddie fare gimme a break? I have a lot of disney animated films, and I HAVE NO KIDS. I do agree that the person who argued over the 5 bucks is raising his blood pressure for nothing, but please get rid of that mentality that cartoons are just for kids please.
Thats what I hate. Cartoons are NOT JUST FOR CHILDREN! Why is it when its an animated feature its automatically kiddie fare gimme a break? I have a lot of disney animated films, and I HAVE NO KIDS. I do agree that the person who argued over the 5 bucks is raising his blood pressure for nothing, but please get rid of that mentality that cartoons are just for kids please.
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Originally posted by chanster
Hey renaldow - read my first message. Was I bragging about it? No. I wasn't.
Hey renaldow - read my first message. Was I bragging about it? No. I wasn't.
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Originally posted by ben12
If he raised his voice first, that's the perfect opportunity to make HIM look like a loon in front of his own customers. I understand the pride issue, but you passed on a golden opportunity to make him look like a nutball.
If he raised his voice first, that's the perfect opportunity to make HIM look like a loon in front of his own customers. I understand the pride issue, but you passed on a golden opportunity to make him look like a nutball.
When I worked customer service in a grocery store, I always did this whenever confronted with a customer screaming her head off about something. I had several get mad that I wasn't shouting back. Some people just enjoy causing scenes; it's best to take away their thunder.
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Originally posted by RevLiver
People that are itching to shout and cause a scene can't stand when they don't get you as ruffled as they are.
Some people just enjoy causing scenes; it's best to take away their thunder.
People that are itching to shout and cause a scene can't stand when they don't get you as ruffled as they are.
Some people just enjoy causing scenes; it's best to take away their thunder.

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Re: Re: Wait a minute...
Originally posted by Deke Rivers
I dont know..as an adult i dont find sitting down to an hr or so of cute talking animals and such all that stimulating...but to each his own
I dont know..as an adult i dont find sitting down to an hr or so of cute talking animals and such all that stimulating...but to each his own
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Re: Re: Re: Wait a minute...
Originally posted by SailorNeptune
To each his own is correct, and by the way if you've seen the Lion King (I guess you havent), its not about an hr or so of cute talking animals so I dont know what the heck you're talking about. Its a coming of age film that deals with death and responsibility. Also I was pointing out that its Family entertainment, for EVERYONE>
To each his own is correct, and by the way if you've seen the Lion King (I guess you havent), its not about an hr or so of cute talking animals so I dont know what the heck you're talking about. Its a coming of age film that deals with death and responsibility. Also I was pointing out that its Family entertainment, for EVERYONE>
There is no need for you to justify what you like to watch to anyone but to come on here lambasting people for calling disney flicks kids films makes it seem like you are trying to justify something. what difference does it make what people call them? If you enjoy them then who cares?
Last edited by Deke Rivers; 10-24-03 at 10:03 AM.



