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Old 12-19-11, 06:27 PM
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Re: CK is all grown up! What's that sound? Wedding bells? Also: job concerns

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Congrats. As for what I'd do, I'd probably motorboat them big ol' titties.


and Congrats!
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Congrats indeed. Where has the time gone?
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Re: CK is all grown up! What's that sound? Wedding bells? Also: job concerns

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Congratulations! You guys look too damned happy!

Everybody looks that way before marriage
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Congrats, if somebody actually asks why you are not leaving any vacation time for your wedding just tell them that you both discussed it and want to take a vacation during Mardi Gras and then there will be a honeymoon a few months after you get married, or don't even tell them there is a date set. Of course if you already told everybody at work that you have a website with wedding plans then it may be difficult.
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Re: CK is all grown up! What's that sound? Wedding bells? Also: job concerns

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Everybody looks that way before marriage
Yeah. I know.
Old 12-19-11, 09:25 PM
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Re: CK is all grown up! What's that sound? Wedding bells? Also: job concerns

Sounds like a nice proposal.

I had to plan our honeymoon to Antarctica a year in advance, you could always use an excuse like that. A lot of people go back to work right after getting married.
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Re: CK is all grown up! What's that sound? Wedding bells? Also: job concerns

Originally Posted by Venusian View Post
Congrats!

Funny seeing folks grow up on the internet.
God, that's the truth. Sometimes I forget how long I've been on here, and I see people changing, myself changing, and it's just crazy. I've gone from totally clueless to just getting engaged last year and getting married myself this past October.

And yes, obviously, congrats CK!!!
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Re: CK is all grown up! What's that sound? Wedding bells? Also: job concerns

Congrats CK!

Nice curves and cute face on that'n Buddy.
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You might thank me later
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Re: CK is all grown up! What's that sound? Wedding bells? Also: job concerns

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I know a two week notice is standard, and I plan on giving them more than that... but if I tell them now that I plan on leaving in the summer... what's to stop them from replacing me now and leaving me jobless?

How do I handle letting them know? Do I put all my PTO requests for other dates and let them put the pieces together? Do I pull my supervisor aside and tell him straight up my plans? Do I assign my PTO for my wedding and just take it as an extra paycheck later?

What would you do?
I went through this recently. Sorta. As soon as I was engaged, I let my boss know I would be leaving in a year. As time got closer I gave them my "two week notice" 3 months in advance so they would have time to train someone else if they wanted. In MY situation, I knew they would not fire me early. They needed me there as much as possible. I was able to put in for a few days off BEFORE I officially gave my notice. Once I officially put in my notice, I would not be allowed to put in for time off.

Only you know the situation at your work. Only you know if your supervisor will work with you on the PTO and your plan in regards to leaving the company. Good luck and congrats!
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Re: CK is all grown up! What's that sound? Wedding bells? Also: job concerns

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You might thank me later
Maybe you didn't read the part where she's in Law School. I should be scared if she asks ME to sign one.
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Re: CK is all grown up! What's that sound? Wedding bells? Also: job concerns

Originally Posted by NORML54601 View Post
Congrats. As for what I'd do, I'd probably motorboat them big ol' titties.
That was going to be my advice. Tell them you need to use the PTO now for an extended 2 week motorboat.

I would just tell them that the only thing the two of you REALLY want to do for your H'moon is go to Mardi Gras, so you are going to take your H'moon early.
Old 12-20-11, 12:57 PM
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Re: CK is all grown up! What's that sound? Wedding bells? Also: job concerns

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I went through this recently. Sorta. As soon as I was engaged, I let my boss know I would be leaving in a year. As time got closer I gave them my "two week notice" 3 months in advance so they would have time to train someone else if they wanted. In MY situation, I knew they would not fire me early. They needed me there as much as possible. I was able to put in for a few days off BEFORE I officially gave my notice. Once I officially put in my notice, I would not be allowed to put in for time off.

Only you know the situation at your work. Only you know if your supervisor will work with you on the PTO and your plan in regards to leaving the company. Good luck and congrats!
Thanks for the input. That makes me feel a bit better. I don't feel like my office is that kind of place where they'd can me the moment they could, but it's still a fear.
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Re: CK is all grown up! What's that sound? Wedding bells? Also: job concerns

Congrats, hope things work out.

And is this the oboe player from a while ago?
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Re: CK is all grown up! What's that sound? Wedding bells? Also: job concerns

Originally Posted by mndtrp View Post
Sounds like a nice proposal.

I had to plan our honeymoon to Antarctica a year in advance, you could always use an excuse like that. A lot of people go back to work right after getting married.
Antarctica? Whoa that's flippin' awesome!
Old 12-21-11, 08:01 AM
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Re: CK is all grown up! What's that sound? Wedding bells? Also: job concerns

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Congrats, hope things work out.

And is this the oboe player from a while ago?
Naw I dropped that girl like it was hot. (It wasn't)

This woman in infinitely more awesome.
Old 12-21-11, 03:01 PM
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Re: CK is all grown up! What's that sound? Wedding bells? Also: job concerns

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Congrats! Amazing that a lot of us have been around here together for over 10 years, and going through life's milestones.
Agree over 12 years for me.

And Congrats!!
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Re: CK is all grown up! What's that sound? Wedding bells? Also: job concerns

Congratulations CK!
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She's a very cute girl (and has a killer smile), the two of you make a very nice looking couple. And I like the wedding update site, nice idea!
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Re: CK is all grown up! What's that sound? Wedding bells? Also: job concerns

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Thanks for the input. That makes me feel a bit better. I don't feel like my office is that kind of place where they'd can me the moment they could, but it's still a fear.
I hear ya. In my situation, my dept had more work than we could do in a day. This is why they needed me there as long as possible. I hope they do right for you. You have lots more to worry about
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Re: CK is all grown up! What's that sound? Wedding bells? Also: job concerns

Originally Posted by CKMorpheus View Post
Thanks for the input. That makes me feel a bit better. I don't feel like my office is that kind of place where they'd can me the moment they could, but it's still a fear.
It could be that fear is trying to tell you something.

How long have you worked for the people you work for? How well do you think you know them?

Well enough to invite them to the wedding? If not, why?

Just my 2.

P.S. Congratulations!
Old 12-24-11, 11:04 PM
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Re: CK is all grown up! What's that sound? Wedding bells? Also: job concerns

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It could be that fear is trying to tell you something.

How long have you worked for the people you work for? How well do you think you know them?

Well enough to invite them to the wedding? If not, why?

Just my 2.

P.S. Congratulations!
I've been there for over two years... I know everyone pretty well though I'd like to invite a few people, but unless everyone could come or could be invited, I wouldn't be comfortable inviting any of them.
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Re: CK is all grown up! What's that sound? Wedding bells? Also: job concerns

Guys... it's getting down to the wire! 9 days! Am I nuts? I don't think I am.
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Re: CK is all grown up! What's that sound? Wedding bells? Also: job concerns

People who are nuts often don't think...they are nuts.

In any case, who cares. Congrats.
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Re: CK is all grown up! What's that sound? Wedding bells? Also: job concerns

WTF is with all the 'congrats'?? DONT DO IT! Why ruin a perfectly good relationship with marriage? Dumb move my man.
BTW, why is her arm so hairy?

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