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Old 03-07-08, 06:19 PM
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When is too early to invite a girl out to meet your friends?

I have a slight dilemma......

I just started hanging out with a girl, and I'm on the fence if I'm into her or not. To complicate matters, it seems like she wants to hang out this weekend, and typically I reserve weekends for girls I meet out at random bars or girls I'm seeing.

This is my b-day weekend, so on sat. I am going to be out with friends and very intoxicated. I'm not sure that is the best situation to bring her into, though it would definitely be interesting. I'm not sure if a couple other girls I'm interested in will be out, so I'm stuck trying to figure out:

1. Should I invite her out?
2. Do I let her know it is my b-day?
3. Too early to meet my friends?

Oh, and...Yes she is hot, no I won't post pics.
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Old 03-07-08, 06:40 PM
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1. Sure.
2. Why not?
3. No, not under these circumstances.
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1. Better not tell you now
2. My sources say no
3. Outlook not so good
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Old 03-07-08, 06:49 PM
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"Outlook not so good"

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Old 03-07-08, 07:02 PM
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Invite her. Your friends are used to you by now that they'll be friendly enough to her without asking anything deep. Now you being a drunk Peddy, you might be more inclined to start saying shit that could hurt your chances of getting another notch. But then again.. chicks like pricks. (Both kinds.) I'm sure either way, it'll end up a win-win for you.
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1. May ruin chances to nail her if she sees you chasing other tail. Always seperate your prey.
2. Yes, she may give you a b-day bang.
3. Possible gang-bang? If so, do you like to get dirty? Your call.

Hard to understand why I'm single, huh?
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Old 03-07-08, 07:22 PM
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1. Saturday - NO!, Sunday, possibly, but allow enough hangover recovery time.
2. Definately not. If it turns out you like her, tell her later on down the line, and she will insist on making it up to you!
3. Yes, especially to see you you and your friends act on a birthday night.
4. Why are we giving The Ped dating advice?
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A girl wants to hang out on the weekend, but that is when you go out and look for random chicks to bang. Tough call.


You moran.
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Old 03-07-08, 07:28 PM
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Originally Posted by kvrdave
A girl wants to hang out on the weekend, but that is when you go out and look for random chicks to bang. Tough call.


You moran.
the weekend is for hunting, and weekdays are for enjoying what you already caught.
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If she finds out it was your birthday and you didn't tell her/invite her - you probably won't have to worry about it anyway.
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Old 03-07-08, 07:48 PM
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Do a favor for your friends and leave her at home until the first year is over. Nothing is worse than hanging out with someone that has to bring their stupid girlfriend with them.
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Originally Posted by grrrah
the weekend is for hunting, and weekdays are for enjoying avoiding what you already caught.
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Old 03-07-08, 08:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Coral
1. May ruin chances to nail her if she sees you chasing other tail. Always separate your prey.
2. Yes, she may give you a b-day bang.
3. Possible gang-bang? If so, do you like to get dirty? Your call.

Hard to understand why I'm single, huh?
I'm not sure who is going to show up, as other friends (and eligible women) will probably pop in and out during the night...ppl in S. FL are flaky, so you never know. I'd rather not be stuck trolling the bars for a fun girl, which isn't all bad...just more work.

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1. Saturday - NO!, Sunday, possibly, but allow enough hangover recovery time.
2. Definately not. If it turns out you like her, tell her later on down the line, and she will insist on making it up to you!
3. Yes, especially to see you you and your friends act on a birthday night.
4. Why are we giving The Ped dating advice?
I'm actually seeing her early next week for a professional thing.

The thing is when I drink I am a lot of fun, and that may or may not go over well. She seems quite interested, but I guess if she doesn't have fun....it probably wouldn't work anyway.

As for giving me advice.....she is a really cool girl and much more together than most of the women I date (think crazy bartenders that jump up on the bars and give out shots), so I'm just checking in to see how "normal" women would react.

Originally Posted by grrrah
the weekend is for hunting, and weekdays are for enjoying what you already caught.
Exactly.
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Old 03-07-08, 09:41 PM
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Originally Posted by grrrah
the weekend is for hunting, and weekdays are for filling antibiotic/Valtrex prescriptions for what you already caught.



j/k
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Old 03-07-08, 10:52 PM
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Great thread, Peddy. Ah, the life of a swingin' bachelor...
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Old 03-07-08, 11:16 PM
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I'm leaning towards inviting her.....i mean, if it goes completely to hell, at least I'll have my friends and a good time, right?

I'm having dinner with maybe 4-5 of my friends before hand....which I was debating inviting her to. I guess if she is going to hang out, she might as well dive in...lol. Those people are all good friends and normal, though the ones downtown.....I think liquor is best when meeting them, just a hunch.
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I would think that 5:00 AM is too early for her to meet you friends.
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Yeah....I'm not a morning person either.
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Old 03-08-08, 12:29 AM
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Originally Posted by pedagogue
I'm leaning towards inviting her.
Nothing good can come of that. Unless she is into anal. Then a little good.....oh shut the hell up No wait...that's not right, either.

MAN THE FUCK UP!!!!

No... that's not it.

Try not to be yourself, but better.
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Dave is on a roll!
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Old 03-08-08, 12:58 AM
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En Fuego.....dave, En Fuego.

I'm off, but I'm open to any other suggestions....as I figure I can invite her up until the afternoon, and then it becomes awkward.
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Old 03-08-08, 01:01 AM
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Originally Posted by grrrah
the weekend is for hunting, and weekdays are for almost enjoying what you already caught.
Fixed.

This IS peddy we're talking about.
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Old 03-08-08, 01:10 AM
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See, that's why I don't talk about my happens elsewhere (particularly this one)....because of stupid shit like that, it gets old. My rotation now is consistent and relatively low drama....minus the collection agency stuff, that is just f'ing annoying. I'm trying to replace that one, which is why I don't want to complete screw this one up.
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Try to avoid letting her meet your friends until the wedding reception, when it's too late for her to back out.
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