My girl friend dumped me for another guy on New Years Eve
 

I live in VA she lives in TX. She called me and dumped me at 11:45 PM How should I deal with this Im pretty torn up. I knew that she was seeing somebody else she told me about 2 weeks before Xmas. At that time I said that maybe we should split and she insisted no. but the next two weeks got progressively worse. How should I handle this.

Just say to yourself, "****ing bitch" and then go about life as usual.

I've never been a big fan of long distance relationships... I know some work out, though.

Try not to dwell on things with her. Her timing really sucks and it's probably just as well things ended now. You have a new year to look forward to.

For now, do things for yourself. Don't jump into another relationship too soon. After a few months start looking around locally.

dude, move on she's someone else's <b>problem</b>

You are free again and it's a new year. Someone HOTTER, NICER, and BETTER for you is out there waiting for you.

Calling you and telling you at 11:45 PM on New Years's Eve is heartless. Even though it may not seem like it right now you're better off without someone who would do that to you.

If she'd break up with you at 11:45 PM on New Year's Eve, she's not worth your time. Breakups suck, but almost all of them are for the best. Be happy you can start the year fresh and take comfort in the knowledge that you've just avoided a potentially bad longterm relationship. And watch some football!!

das

My e-friend,

You don't need that shit. Don't worry about it.

Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks I believe is the correct line :)

new year
fresh start
bitch gone

:up:

Never an easy thing, and it certainly doesn't sound like she tried to make it any easier. You're so much better off without her.

Best of luck in the New Year... hopefully you find someone who won't run around on you, but realize you don't really need anyone right this minute. Give it some time, have fun with some friends. Try not to let your thoughts dwell on it too much (hard, I know). She's not worth the time.

thanks for all your suport.

Good luck. Best of luck to you in 2004.

Probably will be one of the best things that ever happened to you. Hindsight is 20/20...you should have just fully given her the axe when she told you she was seeing someone else, but I digress.

You will find someone much better than that selfish whore.

Ask for "one last hookup" and during, pee in her butt.

Better yet, pee in her shoes and hand her a Burnt Sienna crayon.

Make her some "break-up brownies". :D

She seems like a fluffcake. 11:45PM? Obviously wanted to wash her hands. Well, make her some Breakup Brownies, mixed with your loving ingredients.

Then shit on her forehead and consider it a job well done and wipe your hands of this bitch for good.





Hang in there blaineo :)

This is starting to sound like a prison.

You are much better off. It always seems bad when it happens but later it will seem like a good thing.

Hey, at least you dont sleep in a bunk bed. Life can always be looked apon as positive when you have that going for you.

If nothing else, just take comfort in the fact that you're in Virginia and she's in Texas.

Where in Texas is she?

You know, just for curiosity's sake. ;)

Yeah, I'm sure that many of your fellow Otters in Texas will be more than happy to deliver a flaming bag of poo to her doorstep.

I had a girl break up with me the day before Valentines day. Best thing to do is get over it. Also, I'm willing to deliver the flaming poo if you wish.

11.45pm????????????????????

Talking about a nasty end!!! Wow....I dont think she really liked you then. Anyhow....move on....smile....and look for a local girl.

Good luck!!

I hope you weren't with her for too long, but even so you are better off. I've been dumped some rotten ways before (one ended a three month relationship by putting a note on my car while I was at work), but this takes the cake.

She has proven to be a completely selfish person by 1) denying you the honorable split two weeks ago even though she was eyeing other guys, and 2) picking one of the most inopportune times to drop the bad news, which seems like it was timed so she could go hook up with some dude guilt-free. Likely so she could clear her conscience with no concern for your actual feelings. You're rid of her now. Just concentrate on the shitty things she did and remember that whatever good traits she had can be found in someone else.

Long distance relationship.. uh yeah.. Your better off without her if she was just going to go and cheat on you. Like tweaky said.. New year, Fresh start, go enjoy life.

Being single is something you need to enjoy, not be bummed about. :p

hey! i am the proud owner of Burnt Sienna. Don't go passing him off to some shoe peeing wacko! :D

Sounds to me like she wanted to make the breakup official, before she slept with the new guy.

Well, these sound like fairly young people. I'm guessing she wanted to start the new year with the new guy. Not to mention that she's probably a lightweight who was drunk when she called.

OK, this needs to be a new Otter rule. If your wife or girlfriend dumps you or cheats on you, you need to post their picture here on the forum so we can all have fun Photochopping her and making fun of her.

On a related topic... men, be sure to take at least one naked picture of your significant other at some point, even if you're in a loving and commited relationship. With some women, you just never know...

Note to wife -- I kid, I kid! I just bought that night-vision camera for the Halloween photos. Seriously! That red light just means that it is recharging! Honest!

She's 45 Im 42

Sounds like your a lot better off without her as there was nothing mature about her actions. Get out there and have some fun; you've been given a fresh start.

In her defense, she lives in Texas. For her, it was actually only 9:45 . . .

. . . feel better?

It would have been 10:45, only 1 hour between EST and CST, and, I would hope at 45, she would actually know the difference between the 2 timezones when she decided to place that call. As everyone has been saying, good luck, and, you can do better.

:up: This behavior is childish.

I recommend "Heartbreaker" by Led Zep at maximum volume for three days straight, minimum. Then I recommend a sultry, willing young lass with flashing eyes and a risque mouth.

That is rough. But as others have said: you are better off without someone who is cold enough to break up with you on New Year's Eve.

What this dog forgot to tell you is he has a family living with him that he claims he loves. He is a dirty dog, do not feel sorry for him!!

-confused-

somebody done got hacked!