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Old 09-19-15, 02:58 PM
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Re: The WORST, most obnoxious ebay buyer I've ever dealt with...

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I've never printed ebays shipping label, I've always just wrote it on the package. According to tracking, the package was delivered today. I'm waiting to get a message from him with some sort of issue.
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That's fine if that's what you wanna do. If I have a pair of jeans I paid over $100 for that I no longer want, I'd rather sell them on ebay than give them away. As far as buying jeans, I really only wear 3 brands and one of them are Diesel which are expensive when bought new. If I can find a pair on ebay in great shape then I'd rather spend $30-$50 & give them a good washing as opposed to $150-$200.


That's a stupid assumption. I sell maybe one item per month if that much on ebay, therefore I should know the Postal Holidays?



You don't know, you're taking a chance.
If you pay for postage at the counter you're paying a lot more than you need to. Printing labels at home will save you 20-30% over purhasing at the counter, and you don't have to wait in the postal lines either.
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Re: The WORST, most obnoxious ebay buyer I've ever dealt with...

Never talk to buyers, ever. I would have ignored his first message.

Also defiantly don't send the jeans. Refund him and have an amazing comeback for the one negative on your feedback, everyone will look at it and like you and thing that guy is insane.

Also you can contact e-bay to take off the bad feedback if it is unjust, they can look at the messages. Just tell them he was threatening and you were uncomfortable with the situation.

Edit: and upon further reading you actually sent them... good luck.

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Re: The WORST, most obnoxious ebay buyer I've ever dealt with...

So the buyer just left me positive feedback... but had this to add:
'seller was pushy wanted to be paid one day after won ebay gives 7 days befor pay'.

I have no idea why he's calling me pushy or why he's saying I wanted to be paid one day after he won the auction. Anyway, at least it's overwith.
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Re: The WORST, most obnoxious ebay buyer I've ever dealt with...

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So the buyer just left me positive feedback... but had this to add:
'seller was pushy wanted to be paid one day after won ebay gives 7 days befor pay'.

I have no idea why he's calling me pushy or why he's saying I wanted to be paid one day after he won the auction. Anyway, at least it's overwith.
What an idiot. Wasn't he the one that asked to pay on Friday? Can he retract a positive feedback? If not, I would respond to it with an explanation.
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Re: The WORST, most obnoxious ebay buyer I've ever dealt with...

Originally Posted by JZ1276
That's a stupid assumption. I sell maybe one item per month if that much on ebay, therefore I should know the Postal Holidays?
Not knowing isn't an issue but you should have looked it up before sending him that message. That way instead of the flimsy "I'll send it this day unless the post office is closed" you could have given a definitive answer to when you'd ship the item. Less room for the buyer to complain when you do that especially when dealing with a dipshit.

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So the buyer just left me positive feedback... but had this to add:
'seller was pushy wanted to be paid one day after won ebay gives 7 days befor pay'.
You should respond with your side of the story. Too bad you can't really leave him any feedback yourself.

Between the way he talked to you and the fact he decided to throw in that he bought his GF a new car and has an Escalade I'm willing to bet this is your run of the mill 5'5 fake tough guy.
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Re: The WORST, most obnoxious ebay buyer I've ever dealt with...

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You should respond with your side of the story. Too bad you can't really leave him any feedback yourself.

Between the way he talked to you and the fact he decided to throw in that he bought his GF a new car and has an Escalade I'm willing to bet this is your run of the mill 5'5 fake tough guy.

If you mean respond to his feedback, there is no way to do that. If you mean respond by sending him a message, I've explained to him numerous times ebay auto opened the case, not me. Not sure if you read all those messages in the beginning of the post, but it seems he might be a little slow.

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Never talk to buyers, ever. I would have ignored his first message.
If buyers messages are ignored, they'd just end up leaving neg feedback anyway or giving one star for communication.
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Seriously! That buyer is the ULTIMATE example of white privilege!
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Re: The WORST, most obnoxious ebay buyer I've ever dealt with...

In the future don't assume any information that you are telling the buyer. In the time it took to tell him you don't know when the PO is closed, you could have looked it up.

But at least you got the positive. A couple of negatives and eBay will send you packing these days.
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Re: The WORST, most obnoxious ebay buyer I've ever dealt with...

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If you mean respond to his feedback, there is no way to do that.
Didn't there used to be a way to respond to feedback left for you? Did they take that feature away?
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Re: The WORST, most obnoxious ebay buyer I've ever dealt with...

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Didn't there used to be a way to respond to feedback left for you? Did they take that feature away?
I think they removed that feature a few years ago. I guess it caused too many nasty written exchanges among buyers and sellers.

A negative feedback can be reversed if both parties mutually agree it was unwarranted or the problem was solved.
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Re: The WORST, most obnoxious ebay buyer I've ever dealt with...

I have the Unpaid Ebay thing set for 4 days after bidding ends. My listings clearly say that payment must be received within 24hrs. If people can't follow directions then that's their fucking problem. Out of 100 items that I sold last week I've had only 3 flakes. I've already received the final value fee from one, and Ebay will file the claim in a another day ort 2 on the two jerks.
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Re: The WORST, most obnoxious ebay buyer I've ever dealt with...

Does this not work anymore? because it works for me.
http://pages.ebay.com/help/feedback/respond.html
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Re: The WORST, most obnoxious ebay buyer I've ever dealt with...

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Does this not work anymore? because it works for me.
http://pages.ebay.com/help/feedback/respond.html
I didn't know about that. I was looking for a 'reply' option on the regular feedback page.
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Re: The WORST, most obnoxious ebay buyer I've ever dealt with...

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I didn't know about that. I was looking for a 'reply' option on the regular feedback page.
If it was me, I would followup on that feedback. Especially if you arent a big seller on ebay.
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Re: The WORST, most obnoxious ebay buyer I've ever dealt with...

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If it was me, I would followup on that feedback. Especially if you arent a big seller on ebay.
Already did that. Thanks.

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