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Old 10-13-21, 09:58 AM
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Originally Posted by emanon View Post
So...he's gone from Scottish Guy to British Guy to Canadian Guy?
Don't forget about Aussie guy. It's like Up With People over at Nick's place.
Old 10-13-21, 10:01 AM
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I don't understand. She doesn't want to kiss you, hug you or have sex with you. She only tolerates it to be a good sport or something. Then why do you force her to keep doing it? When she tells you she has zero desire to kiss you, do you thinking forcing her to do it will make her change her mind?
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Old 10-13-21, 10:56 AM
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Grow a pair and move on with your life...your sniveling is not helping.


Why would you keep begging for sex when she has no interest? That will not end well in any circumstance. You are starting to sound like a creepy fuck.





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The therapy is a step in the right direction, whether or not you two stay together.
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Originally Posted by nickdawgy View Post
You mean Canadian guy?
well played, I'll give you that.
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Old 10-13-21, 11:40 AM
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The therapy is a step in the right direction, whether or not you two stay together.
This. That is the most encouraging part of the update, to me, that you guys are getting professional help. Maybe you'll even listen to it.
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Originally Posted by d2cheer View Post
Grow a pair and move on with your life...your sniveling is not helping.


Why would you keep begging for sex when she has no interest? That will not end well in any circumstance. You are starting to sound like a creepy fuck.
Yep. The 'if I wasnít trying to make this work, why would I let you kiss me or hug me or have sex with me? I donít want to do those things but I let it happen.' line absolutely gives me that impression.
Old 10-13-21, 01:27 PM
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Originally Posted by emanon View Post
So...he's gone from Scottish Guy to British Guy to Canadian Guy?
sarcasm.
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Originally Posted by clckworang View Post
I don't understand. She doesn't want to kiss you, hug you or have sex with you. She only tolerates it to be a good sport or something. Then why do you force her to keep doing it? When she tells you she has zero desire to kiss you, do you thinking forcing her to do it will make her change her mind?
Iím not. Thatís one thing I made clear. Donít do something you donít want to do. Sheís doing it apparently to see if she will grow to like it again.
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Originally Posted by d2cheer View Post
Grow a pair and move on with your life...your sniveling is not helping.


Why would you keep begging for sex when she has no interest? That will not end well in any circumstance. You are starting to sound like a creepy fuck.
Not begging her for anything.
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Originally Posted by d2cheer View Post
Grow a pair and move on with your life...your sniveling is not helping.


Why would you keep begging for sex when she has no interest? That will not end well in any circumstance. You are starting to sound like a creepy fuck.
"Starting to"?
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Originally Posted by nickdawgy View Post
Iím not. Thatís one thing I made clear. Donít do something you donít want to do. Sheís doing it apparently to see if she will grow to like it again.
I wonder if that has ever worked in the history of anythingÖ
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I wonder if that has ever worked in the history of anythingÖ
No. This will be the first time in history.
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Originally Posted by nickdawgy View Post
Iím not. Thatís one thing I made clear. Donít do something you donít want to do. Sheís doing it apparently to see if she will grow to like it again.
So, you're not forcing her; you're only asking her to do things or initiating things that you know she doesn't want to do so that she can force herself to do them. Yeah, that sounds so much better.
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Nothing like some unwanted, awkward, loveless sex to get that spark ignited!
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Originally Posted by Draven View Post
I wonder if that has ever worked in the history of anythingÖ
One time I got really sick after eating at my favorite local pizza joint. I didnít go there for a year or two after then I started going back to drink at the bar and that eventually escalated to eating appetizers. After I while I was back on the pizza.
So thereís precedent! Nick is like salmonella pizza right now, but eventually the gag reflex and anxiety might go away.
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Draven can speak for himself, but I think he meant a woman coming around to like something a man forces her to do...
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Nope, broadest terms only here in order to give false hope. I also hated beans for the longest time, yet kept on putting them in my mouth. I eventually started really liking beans.
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Hey! I used to hate beans too!
I see a bright future for this marriage.
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What's up with the beans, do they have some magical health properties I'm unaware of? Like we make our kids eat their vegetables so they grow a tolerance of it but that's because vegetables have nutritional value.
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Originally Posted by fujishig View Post
What's up with the beans, do they have some magical health properties I'm unaware of? Like we make our kids eat their vegetables so they grow a tolerance of it but that's because vegetables have nutritional value.
They're good for your heart
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Word on the street is they also grow giant beanstalks to the sky.
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They're good for your heart
They're GREAT for your heart
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I was always led to believe that beans were a musical fruit, is there some regional difference to beans in this land?

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