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Old 07-29-13, 10:46 AM
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Re: Just called my girlfriend a C*NT in an argument, there is no coming back is there

It depends on whether she first dared you to call her that.
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Re: Just called my girlfriend a C*NT in an argument, there is no coming back is there

It was a very quiet weekend of me sitting at Starbucks by myself, and getting food by myself. There really are no updates, just walking on eggshells. I saw on instagram she went to get brunch with her friend. Our lease is up end of August so I'm on my best behavior until then.
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Re: Just called my girlfriend a C*NT in an argument, there is no coming back is there

I believe saying the "C" word to a woman is the social equivalent of saying the "N" word to an African American.

You're screwed...move on to the next girl.
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Originally Posted by Shannon Nutt View Post
I believe saying the "C" word to a woman is the social equivalent of saying the "N" word to an African American.
Good point.

OP, I suggest you tell her you didn't realize it was that offensive b/c some of your best friends are women.
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Re: Just called my girlfriend a C*NT in an argument, there is no coming back is there

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My wife doesn't clean, do laundry, do dishes, or take the dog out. She's kind of lazy. But I'd never call her a ****.
What do you call her?
Old 07-29-13, 01:20 PM
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Re: Just called my girlfriend a C*NT in an argument, there is no coming back is there

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It was a very quiet weekend of me sitting at Starbucks by myself, and getting food by myself. There really are no updates, just walking on eggshells. I saw on instagram she went to get brunch with her friend. Our lease is up end of August so I'm on my best behavior until then.
Thanks for not being a **** and providing an update to this thread.

By the end of August things should have smoothed over. You just have to ask yourself if you want to continue being in a relationship with this girl. From your past postings, it sounds like you're not too happy with her.
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Re: Just called my girlfriend a C*NT in an argument, there is no coming back is there

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What do you call her?

I call her "If I'm going to do these dishes, you better bring me another 4-5 beers."
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Originally Posted by Ash Ketchum View Post
What do you call her?
An ex-wife.

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Re: Just called my girlfriend a C*NT in an argument, there is no coming back is there

Originally Posted by PenguinJoe View Post
It was a very quiet weekend of me sitting at Starbucks by myself, and getting food by myself. There really are no updates, just walking on eggshells. I saw on instagram she went to get brunch with her friend. Our lease is up end of August so I'm on my best behavior until then.
Please post a pic of her so we can determine if the relationship is worth salvaging.
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Re: Just called my girlfriend a C*NT in an argument, there is no coming back is there

Yikes, to the OP, don't chump out now. If you called her a **** then just man up and apologize. Simple. She either forgives you or doesn't AND then you move on...if it doesn't. Don't be that guy afraid of his own shadow until the end of August. Not only will she be mad at you still but she will also have lost all respect for you, too.
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Re: Just called my girlfriend a C*NT in an argument, there is no coming back is there

If it offended her, I would apologize.

You called her a name, she is now upset, you feel like you did something wrong. If she was upset about something you feel strongly about, I would suggest you stand your ground. This doesn't seem like that situation.
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Re: Just called my girlfriend a C*NT in an argument, there is no coming back is there

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My wife doesn't clean, do laundry, do dishes, or take the dog out. She's kind of lazy. But I'd never call her a ****.
Not kind of lazy. She's fucking lazy. How is that shit going btw, man? You need to make that that an issue.
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Re: Just called my girlfriend a C*NT in an argument, there is no coming back is there

Women should do some chores, not all. I'm not a super dick. I mean I have no problem taking out the recyclables and even unclogging the tub of her hair but letting a dog out to shit/piss upsets her, I don't get.
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Re: Just called my girlfriend a C*NT in an argument, there is no coming back is there

Will she call some random guy in a polo shirt to rescue her?
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Oddly enough I had a somewhat similar situation when I was going to college in Chicago with my girlfriend. We were in 24 hour McDonald's and my girlfriend and i started arguing because she thought I had hit on a girl at the party and some random guy in a polo shirt aggressively got in our conversation and asked if she was okay. She said she was fine we ordered our food and left and then we got into another verbal dispute outside while we ate and I told him to mind his own fucking business and go away at that time he grabbed me and I told him to get off me and he pushed me down and revealed he was an undercover. They took me to jail for the night but my exgirlfriend refused to press charges so nothing came of it. And she actually called me the next day apologetically about drunkenly overreacting. So if I was a sixteen year old and accosted by two oder guys I didn't know I might react the same way. Is it worth a bullet is the question?
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Re: Just called my girlfriend a C*NT in an argument, there is no coming back is there

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Women should do some chores, not all. I'm not a super dick. I mean I have no problem taking out the recyclables and even unclogging the tub of her hair but letting a dog out to shit/piss upsets her, I don't get.
This relationship sounds like a lot of fucking work and you both sound immature. Are you sure it's worth it?
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Yeah Id never take the fucking dog out because its not my dog... If I take the dog out, it isn't coming back. And I established the **** code from day one. Id never call my wife a ****, but Id never call her any name. If it got to that point, that pretty much means its time to reevaluate the relationship. I don't believe "****" is any worse than any other derogatory word. Just because someone gets offended at something, doesn't make them right.
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Not kind of lazy. She's fucking lazy. How is that shit going btw, man? You need to make that that an issue.
It's fine as long as I keep drinking heavily.
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Re: Just called my girlfriend a C*NT in an argument, there is no coming back is there

Originally Posted by FantasticVSDoom View Post
Id never call my wife a ****, but Id never call her any name. If it got to that point, that pretty much means its time to reevaluate the relationship. I don't believe "****" is any worse than any other derogatory word. Just because someone gets offended at something, doesn't make them right.
Does that work both ways? In other words, if she called you a particular word, would that still apply? Women tend to be more sensitive about these words (had a lady friend who remarked that if her husband ever said fuck you, the marriage would be over.)
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Yeah Id never take the fucking dog out because its not my dog... If I take the dog out, it isn't coming back. And I established the **** code from day one. Id never call my wife a ****, but Id never call her any name. If it got to that point, that pretty much means its time to reevaluate the relationship. I don't believe "****" is any worse than any other derogatory word. Just because someone gets offended at something, doesn't make them right.
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Does that work both ways? In other words, if she called you a particular word, would that still apply? Women tend to be more sensitive about these words (had a lady friend who remarked that if her husband ever said fuck you, the marriage would be over.)
I don't think so... I think once we get into name calling (no matter what it is), there are bigger issues at play than what we're being called. I mean obviously that's me, and like I said Id never call my wife a name other than her actual name no matter how mad I was.
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Re: Just called my girlfriend a C*NT in an argument, there is no coming back is there

I love how a woman will act like a ****, talk like a ****, and do ****-worthy things...but you, as a Male, are not allowed to call her one because, well..that would be THE WORST THING EVER.

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