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What would you do if after sex she told you she has HIV?

Old 09-10-12, 07:06 PM
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What would you do if after sex she told you she has HIV?

HIV revelation leads to Dallas woman's murder

DALLAS - There are teddy bears and lit candles outside what's now a boarded-up apartment on Highland Village Drive in South Dallas.

Neighbor Latoya Arnett said she hopes it shows a little respect for a woman who died a violent death.

Cicely Bolden, 28, lived inside the apartment with her seven- and eight-year-old son and daughter.

"The kids came home around 3:30 p.m. Thursday, and when they walked inside the house, they came out crying," Arnett said. "I ran out to see what was wrong with them. They were saying, 'Something's wrong with mama!'"

Arnett said she went inside the apartment and saw Bolden stabbed to death on the bedroom floor. She said she immediately called 911.

"All I know is, she didn't deserve it and her kids didn't deserve to see her like that," Arnett said.

Police say family led them to 36-year-old Larry Dunn, Jr., who Arnett saw arrive at Bolden's apartment Thursday afternoon. She said she didn't recognize him.

Police say Dunn and Bolden recently started dating. Detectives say he cooperated with them when they asked to speak to him about Bolden's death. Police said he admitted, during a recorded interview, he went to Bolden's apartment in the afternoon and after having sex, Bolden revealed she is HIV positive.

The arrest warrant said Dunn was so upset, he went to the kitchen, retrieved a knife, and stabbed Bolden to death. He told detectives, "She killed me, so I killed her."

Detectives said Dunn told them he burned his clothes and the the knife in a garbage dumpster at an Irving Waffle House. Investigators said that's where they found what they believe to be the murder weapon.

The father of Cicely's son, Jeff Busby, said Bolden had contracted HIV within the last couple of years. He said he currently has both her son and her daughter.

"They are doing okay, but asking a lot of questions," he said.

Busby said Cicely remained one of his best friends.

"She was a sweet, sweet person," he said.

Arnett said the same thing.

"She was a good mom. Loved her kids to death," she said. "I can't imagine my kids seeing me like that. I know it hurt them."

Dunn is in custody on a $500,000 bond.

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Re: What would you do if after sex she told you she has HIV?

of indirect murder? yes. what she did was despicable. doesn't give the guy the right to kill her of course.
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Re: What would you do if after sex she told you she has HIV?

She is black. Of course she is guilty. Of many things.
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Is she guilty?
Yes she is, I am HIV positive!

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I would not have sex with her again.
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He's gonna feel pretty foolish when he doesn't get HIV.
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Re: What would you do if after sex she told you she has HIV?

So much that is fucked up with this situation...
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Re: What would you do if after sex she told you she has HIV?

And that is why you never tell anyone you have HIV.
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Re: What would you do if after sex she told you she has HIV?

Self Defense.

Next case.
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Re: What would you do if after sex she told you she has HIV?

I would be very tempted to kill her as well.
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I'd wear a condom next time
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Re: What would you do if after sex she told you she has HIV?

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I would be very tempted to kill her as well.
For one thing, he may not have contracted HIV. Secondly, if he did, he's partially responsible for not wearing protection.
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Re: What would you do if after sex she told you she has HIV?

He didn't know she had HIV. It was up to her skanky-Black ass to inform him before sex. THEN, he had the option to keep his wee-wee protected or not.

However, I think he should get HIV just for screwing this one helluva ugly mofo.
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I know it's not PC to say, but the chances of a man contracting HIV from a woman are pretty low.
Depends. Was it legitmate HIV?
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Depends. Was it legitmate HIV?
A man's body has a way of shutting that area down...
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She'll probably tell the guy beforehand next time.
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Sad all around...
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Horrible all arOund. Guy shouldn't have stabbed her, she should have told him before sex
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Well, this thread is about as horrible as I thought it would be.
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Well, this thread is about as horrible as I thought it would be.

I was thinking the same thing...
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Re: What would you do if after sex she told you she has HIV?

So the answer to the OP's question is to kill the woman, try to cover it up by hiding the evidence, then immediately fold under questioning?
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I know it's not PC to say, but the chances of a man contracting HIV from a woman are pretty low.
Even when earning your Red Wings?
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Yeah, they are in rare form tonight.
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Re: What would you do if after sex she told you she has HIV?

Why did she feel the need to bang him and then tell him afterwards? Why bother telling him at all if you are going to do that. Did she think that she would woo him with her sniz and he would come back for seconds despite the potential danger there. If I can just get him to try it he will love it.....to death.
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Originally Posted by Tracer Bullet View Post
Well, this thread is about as horrible as I thought it would be.
Agreed.
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