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What would you do if after sex she told you she has HIV?

Old 09-10-12, 10:05 PM
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Re: What would you do if after sex she told you she has HIV?

"Dunn told them he burned his clothes and the the knife in a garbage dumpster at an Irving Waffle House."
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Dunn told them...or He dunn told them. I'm confused.
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Re: What would you do if after sex she told you she has HIV?

I would think one who is HIV positive has a legal obligation to tell their sexual partner they have a sexually transmittable disease before sexual relations have begun. Can it be classified as attempted murder if someone were to do this knowing that there is a good possibility they could transmit a lethal disease to someone else?

While it was wrong for him to murder her, he possibly saved the lives of some of her future partners. I would guess it could be tempory insanity on his part.

There was an episode of one of those law shows a number years back that had the same incident as this. I don't recall which show it was or how the storyline was resolved.
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Re: What would you do if after sex she told you she has HIV?

Originally Posted by Rockmjd23 View Post
I know it's not PC to say, but the chances of a man contracting HIV from a woman are pretty low.
There is one exception. If the man stabs the woman and gets her blood on him, it's pretty likely he'll get aids.
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Re: What would you do if after sex she told you she has HIV?

Originally Posted by dmkb View Post
"Dunn told them he burned his clothes and the the knife in a garbage dumpster at an Irving Waffle House."
I doubt that's the first time someone has ditched a murder weapon behind a Waffle House.
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Ugh. What an ugly thread. I don't know why I bother coming here sometimes.
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He--Dunn--goofed.
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Originally Posted by tasha99 View Post
there is one exception. If the man stabs the woman and gets her blood on him, it's pretty likely he'll get aids.
hiv =/= aids
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There was an episode of one of those law shows a number years back that had the same incident as this. I don't recall which show it was or how the storyline was resolved.
One of these?

http://lawandorder.wikia.com/wiki/Quickie

http://lawandorder.wikia.com/wiki/Strain
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hiv =/= aids
Yeah, but throw in time and karma . . .
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s be so crazy.
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Mom with two kids already. It's a no go for me from the start.
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Silver lining - I rofld at "woo him with her sniz"
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Re: What would you do if after sex she told you she has HIV?

The chances of a man contracting HIV through normal vaginal sex with a woman are extremely low. Of course it still doesn't make it right her not telling him before hand and regardless of her status he should have still worn a condom. Better education on both parties parts would have prevented all of this.

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The chances of a man contracting HIV through normal vaganal sex with a woman are extremely low. Of course it still doesn't make it right her not telling him before hand and regardless of her status he should have still worn a condom. Better education on both parties parts would have prevented all of this.
How do you know that it was only vaginal?

Anal ups the ante.
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How do you know that it was only vaginal?

Anal ups the ante.
Good girls don't give up the back door on a first date?
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Good girls don't give up the back door on a first date?
She already had two kids.
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What is this, still 1984?
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Holy shit this thread delivers!

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Re: What would you do if after sex she told you she has HIV?

Originally Posted by Arpeggi View Post
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I didn't even need the pictures

But this guys lawyer is gonna claim temporary insanity. Although the guy doesn't know if he has contacted the HIV virus the thought that this dispicable bitch put him in that situation is enough for one to go nuts.

Did she deserve to die like that no. If feel bad that the kids had to see her like that and that they will be without their mother for a poor choice she made. Well 2 poor choices the first one was getting the HIV in the first place.
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Old 09-11-12, 09:14 AM
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Why did she feel the need to bang him and then tell him afterwards? Why bother telling him at all if you are going to do that. Did she think that she would woo him with her sniz and he would come back for seconds despite the potential danger there. If I can just get him to try it he will love it.....to death.
She felt guilty I am sure.
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I don't think it was them. As I recall in the episode, a girl is found murdered. The detectives go through the usual, where they interview and/or threaten people that knew her. Eventually they find the man that killed her. He claimed he lost it when she told him right after having sex that she had Aids, and he killed her.

I'm assuming it was one of the Law & Order shows becvause it had the investigation than a trial.
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Old 09-11-12, 09:35 AM
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It'll be funny when he goes to prison and finds out he's not HIV+

Moreover, even if you happened to have sex with an HIV positive partner, you are more likely to be free of infection. A research done on the same found a 0.82 percent chance of contracting AIDS after having unprotected sex with an HIV positive partner.

http://www.onlymyhealth.com/one-nigh...hiv-1315372574
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It'll be funny when he goes to prison and finds out he's not HIV+
That article didn't say but I'm betting that is the average for both men and women combined. I remember reading a while ago that the chances for a man having vaginal sex with a HIV positive female and contracting it are much less than for a woman with a positive man. I seem to remember it being half? Maybe less. It certainly makes sense.
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