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Old 09-01-12, 07:31 AM
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Re: best way to kick your friend out of your house?

Until she completely breaks it off with him, he will keep holding onto hope. That's why he still pays half her rent/utilities.

He needs to see she's basically prostituting herself and he's her john. I bet if he stopped paying half of her shit, she would stop all sexual contact.
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Re: best way to kick your friend out of your house?

Originally Posted by whoopdido View Post
No, that's not my name. Why, does my story sound like somebody you know or something?

Anyway. You guys have given some good advice. And it's not that I can't be honest with him. We've already talked about it. I'm just afraid that he really doesn't have anywhere else to go. I'm not going to kick him out if that's the case. We get along just fine. It's just long past the time that he should have either moved back in with his girlfriend or found a new place.
He's an adult with a job... he has someplace else to go.

He needs to get off of the lease at his other place and quit paying the rent there. If he did, he would have more money to get his own place.

If you want to avoid conflict as much as possible, pay the deposit for him at a new place. At least you have a small chance of getting your money back. The only surefire way to avoid conflict completely with him is by not saying anything, and that will only work for so long before it comes to a head. When you get tired enough of it, which I assume you are close to doing based on your posting this on an internet forum, you will probably end up doing something that will absolutely hurt your friendship. Better to deal with it now, than waiting until that point.

For what its worth, Every roommate I have ever had we were not as close when they moved out as we were when they moved in. This is the case for most other people I know also. Good luck!
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Re: best way to kick your friend out of your house?

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Deadline. Straight talk. Balls.
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Re: best way to kick your friend out of your house?

I had a good friend that was booted out where he was living with a few other people for some reason or other. I let him crash at my apartment for a while, no rent and kind of open ended. He said he would find a place, but after a couple of months went by, it was obvious he wasn't going to do it on his own. On a day we both had off from work, I woke him up rather early with a kick and told him he was getting an apartment that day. Despite his hangover, I drove him around until he found one that was acceptable, signed him up, and moved his shit out.

Tell your buddy he needs to move out in two weeks. When that two weeks is up, force him to move out.
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Re: best way to kick your friend out of your house?

It's September 2nd. Talk to him today and say he has until the end of the month to leave. Don't be confrontational, just explain that he's too old to squat and you want to live alone. I guess you could offer to help him out financially, but you've done more than enough for him. It's up to you to do it, he's obviously never leaving on his own. I hate to sound like a cliche, but if it costs you the friendship, then it didn't mean much anyway.

If the above doesn't work, throw acid in his face.
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Old 09-02-12, 07:14 AM
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Re: best way to kick your friend out of your house?

You don't know a person until you live with them. A couple of "friends" I lived with, I'm no longer friends with.

I refuse to ever live with a friend again...
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Re: best way to kick your friend out of your house?

Originally Posted by whoopdido View Post
No, that's not my name. Why, does my story sound like somebody you know or something?

Anyway. You guys have given some good advice. And it's not that I can't be honest with him. We've already talked about it. I'm just afraid that he really doesn't have anywhere else to go. I'm not going to kick him out if that's the case. We get along just fine. It's just long past the time that he should have either moved back in with his girlfriend or found a new place.
Oh he can find somewhere else to go, he can stop paying rent at a place he is not living at and use it toward his own place, he can start paying you rent, he can go to family, he can go to the apartment that he is paying rent and live there, he can go to a homeless shelter. I would tell him starting today he has to pay rent, 1/2 of the utilities and food. He is an adult not your child.
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Re: best way to kick your friend out of your house?

How much longer before the lease with the ex-girlfriend is up for renewal?

It if it on a month-to-month basis, or if it is coming up in the next month or so, have him send a letter to the landlord indicating that he will not be renewing. Cc the ex-girlfriend.
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Has anyone suggested to the op to sleep with his friend's ex?

Has anyone suggested doing something sexual to him in his sleep?

Has anyone used the word "this" in this thread as a complete sentence?
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Pee in his butt.
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Re: best way to kick your friend out of your house?

Originally Posted by kvrdave View Post
Deadline. Straight talk. Balls.
this....but maybe w/o the balls depending on what we're talking about here.
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this....but maybe w/o the balls depending on what we're talking about here.
It's Dave, so if meant something physical he would've said "ball".
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I have two balls.
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Re: best way to kick your friend out of your house?

Originally Posted by Lee Harvey Oswald View Post
Has anyone suggested to the op to sleep with his friend's ex?
I don't know. But I came here to post that.

Fuck his gf. Hard. And record it. POV style. Then post it Your Porn. And show it to him. At the end, turn the camera on yourself, look into the lense, and tell him, "now get the fuck out of my house".
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Re: best way to kick your friend out of your house?

Originally Posted by troystiffler View Post
I don't know. But I came here to post that.

Fuck his gf. Hard. And record it. POV style. Then post it Your Porn. And show it to him. At the end, turn the camera on yourself, look into the lense, and tell him, "now get the fuck out of my house".
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Re: best way to kick your friend out of your house?

Originally Posted by whoopdido View Post
No, that's not my name. Why, does my story sound like somebody you know or something?

Anyway. You guys have given some good advice. And it's not that I can't be honest with him. We've already talked about it. I'm just afraid that he really doesn't have anywhere else to go. I'm not going to kick him out if that's the case. We get along just fine. It's just long past the time that he should have either moved back in with his girlfriend or found a new place.
No other place to go? A guy with a job has no other place to go and rent? Your enabling him to not resolve things with this girl, because as long as he has a rent free place, he doesn't have to confront the girl and the fact that he is paying rent on a place he got kicked out of. Trust me, once you kick him out he is going to resolve this with her real fast. He is either going to get back together, or he is going to fight for his money so he can rent another place.
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Re: best way to kick your friend out of your house?

I would probably let him stay as long as he wanted but he would have to start paying rent and half of the utilities. I would also point out the paying rent on a place you are not living is BS. If the ex isn't a horrible person she can see how this isn't fair to your friend. Of coarse she could be having sex with him just for the rent. Any way I guess their situation isn't really your problem.

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