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Old 12-15-11, 09:29 AM
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Woman Lets Match.com Dates Pay For All Of Her Dinners

Food slut.


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Re: Woman Lets Match.com Dates Pay For All Of Her Dinners

don't all women?
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Originally Posted by TallGuyMe View Post
don't all women?


Thread title even sounds like an Onion headline. She "lets" men pay for dinners on first dates? SHOCKING! Sounds like 99% of the women I've met on dozens of first dates. Exactly two women have insisted on paying for the entire meal and some have offered to pay half. Most, however, expect the man to pay. (Which I gladly do because I'm old school like that.)

ETA: GUILTY
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does she spit or swallow?
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Re: Woman Lets Match.com Dates Pay For All Of Her Dinners

Originally Posted by TimeandTide View Post
She "lets" men pay for dinners on first dates? SHOCKING! Sounds like 99% of the women I've met on dozens of first dates.
There's a difference between letting a guy pay for a first date and having a first date every night of the week. The guy is going on a date, she's apparently just going for the food. Pretty shitty.
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Wait until some of her dates read this story. She better hope none of them have her address.
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I am outraged?
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There's a difference between letting a guy pay for a first date and having a first date every night of the week. The guy is going on a date, she's apparently just going for the food. Pretty shitty.
Wasn't able to link to the article at work so missed the context. Shitty, yes, but still not surprising. Have met a couple of these "free meal" types over the years.

I prefer the ones who just want sex.
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Re: Woman Lets Match.com Dates Pay For All Of Her Dinners

I hadn't thought of that dodge.

Hm... put up with jerks for food...

But, seriously, who spends $500 a month on food?
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I don't blame her for working the system... I blame the dopes she goes out with for taking her to dinner on the first date. Drinks and maybe appetizers is an appropriate first date for someone you met on the internet.
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Re: Woman Lets Match.com Dates Pay For All Of Her Dinners

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I hadn't thought of that dodge.

Hm... put up with jerks for food...

But, seriously, who spends $500 a month on food?
New Yorkers who don't know how to cook.
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Originally Posted by cungar View Post
New Yorkers who don't know how to cook.
Or New Yorkers who do know how to cook... Groceries arent cheap here.
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Wasn't able to link to the article at work so missed the context.
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Woman Lets Match.com Dates Pay For All Of Her Dinners
These are rough economic times, but thankfully a young woman has developed a way to get strangers to cover your entire food budget, including the occasional bottle of $200 champagne. All you need to do is aggressively court men on Match.com and set up a complex dinner date schedule that keeps you well-fed throughout the week. It also helps if you have few compunctions about leading the guys on, and don't mind internet commenters referring to you by a variety of sexual slurs.

23-year-old Jessica Sporty tells Business Insider that though her salary was $45K, she simply wasn't able to make it in New York, and "she needed at least an extra $500 a month and sometimes $1,000 to pay her credit card bills and afford her $1,475 a month apartment in Murray Hill." Rather than shipping out to a less ritzy borough and learning to subsist on ramen noodles and rice and beans, she found that she could do nearly all of her eating for free and keep herself out of debt thanks to men she met on Match.com.

Business Insider breaks down her controversial meal plan:

Sporty went from easily spending $500 a month on dinners alone to having someone else dole out an average of $60-plus per night. She also stopped eating lunch and opted for a light breakfast to save even more.

According to our calculations, Sporty made over $1,200 a month.

Match.com does require a $50 monthly subscription, but the dates more than made up for the entry price.

"I mean, a guy buys me three drinks at $15 a pop and that right there made up for my Match fee," said Sporty.

Soon Sporty's roommates joined in and the women decided to make their formula more scientific by making up spreadsheets about their dates including names, photos, and information from their online profiles. They also limited themselves to online five meals with each suitor. Now Sporty says she's given up on her plan because, "I needed my sleep and I was done playing the game." The online dating scene was "exhausting" plus, she now has a boyfriend.

Naturally, in just a few hours Sporty's tactics caused a shitstorm among online commenters, with Business Insider noting that they've "disabled comments on this post because they were getting out of control." However, it's easy to suss out the mob's reaction from New York Observer describing her method as "food hooking," and Gothamist readers calling her "skank" and "dirty whore."

Sporty certainly isn't the first person who's been more interested in the idea of going out to dinner than the person they'll be splitting an appetizer with. It's ironic that people are attacking Sporty for her sexual mores when it seems that what they're really upset about is that she violated the tacit dating code that says a woman should be up for some sexual favors if a man buys her a few meals. That's a truly disgusting idea, but Sporty isn't exactly scoring one for women's rights. The callousness of her plan plays into the stereotype that ladies are all conniving gold-diggers though people have no right to call her names even if she slept with every one of those dudes.

It's wrong to call her a "skank," but she is a jerk. While it seems she was dating a lot off Wall Street types we're not supposed to feel sorry for, she repeatedly lied to the dudes. They aren't entitled to sex, but it still isn't cool to make anyone believe that you're potentially interested in a relationship when all you're really after is free food and booze.
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Re: Woman Lets Match.com Dates Pay For All Of Her Dinners

I'm guessing she's not a big tipper.
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Re: Woman Lets Match.com Dates Pay For All Of Her Dinners

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LMAO! I knew she reminded me of something...
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Look on the bright side, anyone who goes on that many blind dates is sure to get raped.
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Originally Posted by Goat3001 View Post
I don't blame her for working the system... I blame the dopes she goes out with for taking her to dinner on the first date. Drinks and maybe appetizers is an appropriate first date for someone you met on the internet.
This is exactly right. Drinks and appetizers at most for a first date and maybe even just coffee when you're talking about Match.com. It's more or less a blind date and basically an interview. Most of the first dates I went on from Match.com I never wanted to see again, but if I did then dinner would be for the next date. Who buys a Match.com date a $200 bottle of champagne?

In any event, this is no different than the guys, or girls that use Match.com entirely for hook-ups.
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Food & drinks? She should do it for jewelry instead.

Seriously, treat her to a latte at Starbucks rather than dinner.
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WTH is up with her nose? Is that a bad nose job or bad genetics?
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WTH is up with her nose? Is that a bad nose job or bad genetics?
Probably a battle scar from conning hundreds of New Yorkers for food.
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She's ok looking but not so hot that I'd want to support her food habit. Maybe for a month or so.
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[QUOTE=Cusm;11043613]WTH is up with her nose? Is that a bad nose job or bad genetics?[/QUOTE

My first thought too. Maybe she should have asked for cash donations to pay for a nose job.

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