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Is 16 too much? (Another dating thread)

Old 08-20-10, 09:30 PM
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Is 16 too much? (Another dating thread)

Okay, this forum is seriously lacking in dating department so I'm going to post my brief story.

I've been dating a couple women and I've met a third one online. We got along well and we were texting back and forth. The questions got a bit more personal and she revealed that she had slept with 16 people. I was kinda taken aback. That seems like a lot to me, as I've never been with a woman who told me a number anywhere near that close.

Long story short, I'm staying dating the other women and dropped Miss Sixteen. Is that too much? For context, she's 29.
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Old 08-20-10, 09:34 PM
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She's just the first one that's told you the truth then. That's a pretty standard number. I know girls younger than that who have been with more guys.
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I don't think so, but I have been with a woman that had 30+ (and was loosy goosey as a result ) and she was only 19.

My wife won't quantify but I have deduced that it is somewhere between 8 and 15 for her.
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Remember the rule of three...you have to multiply the girl's number by three. So she's actually been with 48 separate dicks.

Honestly though...how many women had you been with when you hit 29? 16 isn't that many, all things considered.

I never ask this question of women, and hope they never bring it up either. Who cares? It's the past.
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Re: Is 16 too much? (Another dating thread)

Why would you even ask a question like that? I learned long ago, after many hurt feelings after asking similar questions, that it doesn't matter. What does matter is what's going on in the here and now. Nothing before us matters and keep the past, the past.
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Honestly though...how many women had you been with when you hit 29?
Exactly.
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Well, I'm not 29 yet but I don't think I'll be up to 16 in 2 years.

30+ and only 19? Jeezuz.

I guess it was a combination of things... seeing other interesting women, unflattering pictures and a high number is a big no for me.
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(and was loosy goosey as a result )
thats a myth. pussy doesnt get stretched out from dick. maybe a little bit but not to the point that its loose. the woman was born with a big coochie.

i used to get with this total slut and she told me she was with at least 50 guys and she was early 20's. she was the tightest ive ever had, im talking one finger tight. damn i miss that girl.

as for the OP. the girl loves dick, so what. have fun with her.
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While she provided how many guys she has slept with, you also have to wonder how that number multiplies if you were to consider how many dudes she has blown.

Food for thought, my friend.
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While she provided how many guys she has slept with
Not exactly ....

Originally Posted by PopcornTreeCt View Post
The questions got a bit more personal and she revealed that she had slept with 16 people.
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So the girl likes sex. In theory, she should be better in bed.
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Wow, when I saw the number 16 and the word "dating", I thought this thread would be about something entirely different. Slightly disappointed...
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When she's been with 16 guys WHILE you are dating her, that's when it's a problem.
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Re: Is 16 too much? (Another dating thread)

Who's to say what is "too much" as long as the other person is STD-free?

I say 16 people means they have a little experience, which can only be a good thing.

My question is, why does it matter, and what do you think is an "appropriate" number? Why is your number fine but 16 or more isn't?
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thats a myth. pussy doesnt get stretched out from dick. maybe a little bit but not to the point that its loose. the woman was born with a big coochie.

i used to get with this total slut and she told me she was with at least 50 guys and she was early 20's. she was the tightest ive ever had, im talking one finger tight. damn i miss that girl.

as for the OP. the girl loves dick, so what. have fun with her.
All of my years of studying pornography would lead me to believe otherwise. Especially when you get a new girl who has to work it in and then you see her new videos months later and things go so smooth an easy.

I think you were just very lucky or she was doing lots of kegles.


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Wow, when I saw the number 16 and the word "dating", I thought this thread would be about something entirely different. Slightly disappointed...
Me too.
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Who's to say what is "too much" as long as the other person is STD-free?

I say 16 people means they have a little experience, which can only be a good thing.

My question is, why does it matter, and what do you think is an "appropriate" number? Why is your number fine but 16 or more isn't?
Good points. We never got to the STDs question. I assume she was clean. I think it's more than a little experience, it just seems high to me. Although as my friend put it, if she started at 16 that's hardly more than 1 a year. Which is like nothing.

I guess less than 10 would be more acceptable?
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While she provided how many guys she has slept with, you also have to wonder how that number multiplies if you were to consider how many dudes she has blown.

Food for thought, my friend.
Yeah, you have to be careful with chicks like that. They're always sucking dick on the way to the parking lot.

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But seriously, what you should consider isn't the number of partners, but their distribution over time. If they're spaced evenly, then even assuming she lost her virginity at 13, she's never been in a relationship that's lasted over a year. That's no big deal if you're only looking for a fling, but it doesn't augur well for a long-term relationship. On the other hand, maybe a bunch of them are clustered together -- I know a lot of girls sleep around after their first big break-up when they just want any warm body, and of course a lot of girls go wild when they start college and realize they can get drunk and have sex without mommy and daddy finding out. If she had most of her partners between the ages of, say 16 and 23, but has only been with two guys since getting out of college, that's no big deal. (Though I wouldn't touch her without a rubber unless she was tested first.)

Of course, something else to consider would be the possibility that some of those partners overlapped -- either, (A) she was screwing #8 while still dating #7, or (B) she was screwing #8 and #7 simultaneously. Which is okay if you go for that kinda thing, but otherwise you'd have to be wary that she's going to to come home one night with a guy named Fred she met at the bar and want to play fingercuffs.
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Sex is the last thing I'd worry about. Fighting her 16 evil exes will be the hard part.
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I guess I just see this as emblematic of that male psychological condition where they want the women they date to be untouched, pure as winter snow virgins...at least until that guy can fuck her so hard she's on crutches for a month.

Again, why is the number of partners important?

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So the girl likes sex. In theory, she should be better in bed.
Hah.
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All of my years of studying pornography would lead me to believe otherwise.
in all my years of studying of porn i have learned that all women love anal.

and yeah ok maybe a porn star whos fucked 100+ wrist thick dicks will get a lil loose. but your average slut isnt. i think some men dont realize that like dicks vaginas come in different sizes.
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I worry more about positions and freaky sex acts than the number. Beware the chick who has only been with one man, but loves the Cleveland Steamer.
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"what's past is prologue"
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