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Old 07-25-10, 01:46 PM
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A friend of mine from high school is a child molester

http://www.scpr.org/news/2010/07/23/...t-sex-charges/

High school teacher pleads no contest to sex charges
July 23, 2010 | KPCC Wire Services | KPCC

A man who taught math at Compton High School pleaded no contest today to sex-related charges involving three female students.

Nicolei Hurtado Ocana, 28, is facing four years in state prison when he returns to Compton Superior Court for sentencing on Aug. 20, according to Deputy District Attorney Kristin Trutanich.

All of the crimes occurred at the school between Sept. 1, 2008, and April 21 this year, according to Trutanich. One of the girls was 15 at the time and the other two were 16.

The plea was entered on the day a preliminary hearing was set to begin to determine if there was sufficient evidence to require the Placentia man to proceed to trial.

Along with the state prison term, Ocana will be ordered to register as a sex offender for the rest of his life, according to the District Attorney's Office.
My old high school friends and I are floored. This is unbelievable to us, because he was such a great guy. He gave up going to college for a few years to work full-time so that his parents wouldn't lose their house. It's so sad to see him go like this.
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I was going to put a link to the "my old buddy is gay, what do I do" thread, but then I realized that I would be implying that being gay is bad...

lol oh what the hell..if you need support try this thread


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Sucks man.
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Re: A friend of mine from high school is a child molester

Well at least it wasn't an 8 year-old.
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Meh.
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It was all the fault of those sexually aggressive hussies! They threw themselves at him! They wore slut clothes to school! They sexted him!

Maybe he's a great guy, but even great guys can be really stupid sometimes.
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These students were clearly in an area with signs saying they wanted to have sex with a teacher.
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It was all the fault of those sexually aggressive hussies! They threw themselves at him! They wore slut clothes to school! They sexted him!

Maybe he's a great guy, but even great guys can be really stupid sometimes.
It's just hard to hear this kind of news.

One of my old high school friends went to prison for assault when he was still a senior. He got in a fight outside school grounds that he didn't even start, and the other person's mother pressed charges. He got 2 years in Federal. When he came out, he was never the same. His life hit a dead end right there and then.
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I'm sure he might have been a genuinely good guy to a certain a extent, but like most people he had some darker issues underneath. Nice guy or not, he did a pretty sleazy thing.

I have a feeling most of us would be floored to discover what other facets exist among our otherwise good friends. (and vise-versa)
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Giving into jail bait doesn't make him a monster, just a law breaker.
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Re: A friend of mine from high school is a child molester

Originally Posted by Rockmjd23 View Post
Well at least it wasn't an 8 year-old.
Exactly. If there's grass on the field, play ball!



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Originally Posted by Lemmy View Post
I have many friends, but only a very few close friends (known them all over 25 years, at least). With close friends, I never discuss politics and religion. We discuss, primarily, the things that brought us together as friends (music, mostly, as we are all musicians, some pro in both performance and production). I see things occasionally on their FB pages that I don't necessarily agree with, so I disregard those things entirely. The friendships (as well as the resulting music) are worth more to me than anything I might "find out".

I'm not sure why you're bringing this up. I wasn't implying that friendships are based or should be based on what we might "find out." Like you, many of my dearest friends and I have very different views in terms of politics, religion, etc. In fact, I'm sure most people have such friendships.

My point was that people are more than what we think they are or what we see on the surface. It's possible for someone to be both good and bad and sometimes that screws up with our perception of that person's character.

There's a difference between thinking you know someone really well, only to find out that they had this secret double life that contradicts the person you thought you knew... and having a good connection with someone who has views you disagree with, but never really discuss.
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Pixie Song, you're missing the point: Lemmy is friends with professional musicians.
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Yeah 15 and 16 isn't so bad. This is in Compton CA so I'm guessing they were most likely Latinas or Black. Although, given the Perp's name I'm guessing he goes for Latinas.


Don't get me wrong, it's stupid...but as someone posted before me, at least it wasn't an 8yo.

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The tone herein is different from that found in most threads in Other about teachers and students. I wonder why...

Wait, is the guy hot or not? If he's not, then I understand.
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Exactly. If there's grass on the field, play ball!

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I need details of what he did to the 16yo's. I need it read slowly by Kate Winslet in Audiobook form..

I have a feeling the girls were more than willing to give it up to him, but something happened that made this all blow up.
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Niiiiiceeeeeeeeeee.

Wait...
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I think the law should be changed. if you fickle fack a 16 year old it shouldn't be the same as an 8 year old. There are HUGE diffrences (usually 2 Huge differences) between an 8 year old and a 16 year old. The law stating that this guy is now a "Child Molester" is stupid, he is not a "Child Molester" he is a Teen [email protected]#ker. Just my 2 cents on the subject, and to clarify i have a cousin that went to prison for 8 years for doing something stupid to a 13 year old.
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Originally Posted by JJE-187 View Post
I think the law should be changed. if you fickle fack a 16 year old it shouldn't be the same as an 8 year old. There are HUGE diffrences (usually 2 Huge differences) between an 8 year old and a 16 year old. The law stating that this guy is now a "Child Molester" is stupid, he is not a "Child Molester" he is a Teen [email protected]#ker. Just my 2 cents on the subject, and to clarify i have a cousin that went to prison for 8 years for doing something stupid to a 13 year old.
He should be fired, absolutely. But is he a criminal? That's certainly debatable.
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He should be fired, absolutely. But is he a criminal? That's certainly debatable.
With the exception of the 15yo, what he did would be Legal in some states. In some countries, even the 15yo would be legal. Assuming the sexual activity was consensual.

Lesson here?

Pick the right state to Tap Teen Ass. And more important, don't go to school with Superboy because clearly he hung with a fucked up crowd.

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Originally Posted by JJE-187 View Post
I think the law should be changed. if you fickle fack a 16 year old it shouldn't be the same as an 8 year old. There are HUGE diffrences (usually 2 Huge differences) between an 8 year old and a 16 year old. The law stating that this guy is now a "Child Molester" is stupid, he is not a "Child Molester" he is a Teen [email protected]#ker. Just my 2 cents on the subject, and to clarify i have a cousin that went to prison for 8 years for doing something stupid to a 13 year old.
Agreed...a friend of our family's had a kid who was LD, and as a 19 year old got arrested for screwing around with a 16 year old. She was some trashy girl whose mom was like 32 and always accusing men of shit, an attention whore to the max. And I think all he did was felt her up. He never served more than 6 months or so, but he's now a sex offender just the same as the creeps who molest 8 year olds.
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Exactly. If there's grass on the field, play ball!

And if there's not, go around back and play in the mud.
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That's what I like about these high school girls; I get older, they stay the same age.
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