Chick Wants Me....or DOES She...?
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Originally Posted by DarkestPhoenix
....ask a question to try and decipher what this chick is thinking...
Anways, maybe she's just one of those really friendly people who like to chat. I've met a few girls like that, friendly and guys take it the wrong way. Or maybe she's just testing you to see how if you'll take it to the next level.
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or...
6) She actually was interested in you until she found out that you're unattached. She can't use you to boost her ego, so you're out of the picture now.
6) She actually was interested in you until she found out that you're unattached. She can't use you to boost her ego, so you're out of the picture now.
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Walk into the coffee shop next time with a nice looking girl attached to your arm, and mildly ignore Emily, as if you don't have time for her anymore. Laugh and be a little touchy with the girl. Kiss her on the cheeks before you leave. Make sure Emily sees this.
Observe her reactions out the corner of your eye. If she seems uncomfortable, plays with her hair, scratches her cheek or hands then she probably likes you.
Then punish her for turning you down by being jovial with all the other staff, but not with her. Make some light fun of her with her colleagues so she feels left out. Give her little pockets of attention if she starts to get farther away from you.
She will come back to you for more attention, with you having demonstrated dominance over her and the people around her.
She has probably unknowingly tried to play cat and mouse with you. Show her that you are a tiger.
Observe her reactions out the corner of your eye. If she seems uncomfortable, plays with her hair, scratches her cheek or hands then she probably likes you.
Then punish her for turning you down by being jovial with all the other staff, but not with her. Make some light fun of her with her colleagues so she feels left out. Give her little pockets of attention if she starts to get farther away from you.
She will come back to you for more attention, with you having demonstrated dominance over her and the people around her.
She has probably unknowingly tried to play cat and mouse with you. Show her that you are a tiger.
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Originally Posted by DarkestPhoenix
Anyway, theories? Thoughts?
Maybe her 'friend zone' had an opening

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Every time I go in, I'm nice, like I am to everybody, and she always gives me a big smile when I walk through the door.
Now 1 time in 100, the w/c/b will accept a date with you. This is because she's a slut, and quite possibly looking for someone to be her baby's daddy . You can improve your odds by looking for tramp-stamps -- w/c/bs with tramp-stamps always wear clothes that expose them.
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It's rare that a DarkestPhoenix thread isn't fun. The responses here, while typical are as amusing as always.

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DP, you're a very nice looking man. She probably saw the hawtness that is you and couldn't help herself. Seriously. Boink the crap outta her then report back here.

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Originally Posted by Mrs. Danger
You could always just ask her.

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"Hey, you want a piece of the DP or what?!?" I'm thinking that wouldn't go over so well.
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If you not able to glean anything more substantive from her then you will probably need to decide to a) pursue her in a more determined manner, like Sean O'Hara's suggestion for example or b) be cool with her talking to you but that it probably will not go anywhere. Putting up with mixed signals is teh suck.
Nonetheless, good for you to ask her out with the info available.
Nonetheless, good for you to ask her out with the info available.

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Originally Posted by DarkestPhoenix
Coffee shop owner is gay, so that's funny.
'course, could be a cover to get more play...
'course, could be a cover to get more play...
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Originally Posted by DarkestPhoenix
Coffee shop owner is gay, so that's funny.
'course, could be a cover to get more play...
'course, could be a cover to get more play...
But seriously, I would explain everything to your friend, and see what's up.