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Would you let your wife train with a hot personal trainer in his home?

Old 02-27-08, 05:57 PM
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Would you let your wife train with a hot personal trainer in his home?

There is a woman who I work with who is about 27 years old who told me today that she hired a personal trainer and that they "work out" in his house. The way it sounds he does not have a home gym so I'm unsure of what type of "exercises" they are doing, maybe Tae-BO or some other type of workout. Her husband says he is fine with it and she thinks there is nothing wrong with it either.

Well I got to thinking and I'm unsure of how I would react if my wife came home and told me she is working out with a personal trainer at his house. I would be 100% fine with it if it were in a gym, but at his house....

I'll see if I can find out more information tomorrow and I'll ask if she had a good work out.
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Old 02-27-08, 06:00 PM
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how do you know the trainer is "hot"?

pics? (of your co-worker)

to answer your question, probably not... not having a gym in his home, yet still using his home for clients probably means he is not a very good trainer.
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Old 02-27-08, 06:02 PM
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Originally Posted by grrrah
how do you know the trainer is "hot"?

pics? (of your co-worker)
She said he was attractive. And yes my co-worker is a very attractive woman. (but sorry no pics)

Maybe I will tell her about this thread and she can post the pics herself.

You also make a good point about not having is own equipment, that would set off a bunch of red flags as well.

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Old 02-27-08, 06:12 PM
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Public place would be okay, well, kind of. In a home, I dont think so. She has already said he is attractive and you know a hand here and a hand there. Next thing you know its massages external and internal.

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Guys get very horny after a workout. I don't know about women.

Maybe it's good he doesn't have any exercise equipment.




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Old 02-27-08, 06:21 PM
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Originally Posted by big whoppa

Maybe it's good he doesn't have any exercise equipment.
He's got the piece of "equipment" that counts.
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Old 02-27-08, 06:24 PM
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Well, if the hot personal trainer was another lady, then sure. I'd also ask to hide in the closet.
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Old 02-27-08, 06:28 PM
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Uh. No way. There was a story in Time or Newsweak in which a personal trainer was indicating how easy it was to get into affairs with the women that he was training and how often it occured.

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And I wouldn't go to a female personal trainers home to work out either.

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Old 02-27-08, 06:36 PM
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I think that is suspect behavior.

I would have to ask why this was the only arrangement she could come up with to meet her goals. Her answer might reveal something.

but I am not in the relationship and I don't know her. I might also think if her husband didn't care, he might have his own 'personal trainer' and they just have it like that
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Yeah! Have her read this thread and try and convince us she's innocent. That's the way we roll.

I would be uncomfortable with this situation. Even if her husband says he doesn't have a problem with it - I bet you he's just saying that to be nice.
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I don't have a wife, but I would still say fuck no. That just sounds sketchy right there. What kind of person trainer uses his own house, unless he has a gym? A one that fucks your wife, that's who.
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It might ease the guilt about my own affairs, so I'd have to go with "sure."
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I know trainers who train clients in their homes because gyms take such a big cut of the trainer's fees, so it's not as crazy as it sounds.

If you trust your wife, then it wouldn't matter how "hot" the trainer was, so I wouldn't have a problem with it.
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Old 02-27-08, 08:27 PM
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I don't think my girlfriend would cheat on me, so I wouldn't have a problem with her training. I would have a problem with whatever advances he might take, though. When she didn't give in, I don't know what his reaction would be.
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I don't care if it's 100% innocent or not. This is the exact type of situation that you just don't allow yourself to be placed in. Anyone who is fine with this type of arrangement is either out of their mind or they simply don't care one way or another.
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Old 02-27-08, 08:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Dave7393
I know trainers who train clients in their homes because gyms take such a big cut of the trainer's fees, so it's not as crazy as it sounds.

If you trust your wife, then it wouldn't matter how "hot" the trainer was, so I wouldn't have a problem with it.
You should send your wife to my house to "train," I only charge $50 an hour for my "services."
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Old 02-27-08, 08:45 PM
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Originally Posted by big whoppa
Guys get very horny after a workout. I don't know about women.

Maybe it's good he doesn't have any exercise equipment.




Yeah I'll be sending this video to her first thing tomorrow.
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Old 02-27-08, 08:47 PM
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Originally Posted by dieinafire
You should send your wife to my house to "train," I only charge $50 an hour for my "services."

Umm, no. If you've never even heard of a trainer working from home, then you probably don't know much about training.

I used to do personal training as my job (and I'm still certified), so she's in pretty good hands. But thanks for the offer.

(edit: at least allow the possibility of a different opinion for those in a healthy marriage for several years).

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Old 02-27-08, 08:50 PM
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You can always give her The **** Punch

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It sounds a bit sketchy. But if tried to put the moves on Mrs Danger, she'd just come home and tell me about it.
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Hell yes!! and he can take the kids to
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Hell yes!! and he can take the kids to
send her, the kids and a "thank you" letter
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Or on the other side trust her, unless shes a slut that fucks any guy hitting on her, and you don't need her anyway

and **** punch,

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Old 02-28-08, 08:24 AM
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Holy shit that **** punch is hillarious

And if you are a good trainer, you arent training out of your home... Sure their are those that do it, but that doesnt mean its a good idea.
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