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A 19 year old dating a 14 year old: Is that ever acceptable?

Old 09-11-06, 09:25 PM
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Originally Posted by BrentLumkin


We just talked to my sister about this, once again, and all she'll say is "well what am I supposed to do about it?" so there's that.
Ask her if she prefers "grandma" "granny" or "gran ma-ma".
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Old 09-11-06, 09:28 PM
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Originally Posted by Venusian
Other, you disappoint me. I found his and her myspace in less than a minute.
Yeah, didn't take long. What the hell is that music he has??
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Old 09-11-06, 09:34 PM
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Old 09-11-06, 09:38 PM
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Here are two more of his pics:



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Old 09-11-06, 09:39 PM
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i'm very tempted to post some of the photoshops on his comments
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Old 09-11-06, 09:40 PM
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just read this comment on his site from his friend. i think a few brain cells died:

ayyyyyy wats good .....shyt nm hea jus busy wit skoo first week was hard and stupid lol i dont lyke none of ma classes and have changed ma schedule more than 5 tymes lol but neways lol i been iight how u been? missed talkin to ur smart booty 2 ;P and rememba u need to take a pic wit u smilin
but get back at me iight
much luv and take care
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Old 09-11-06, 09:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Venusian
Other, you disappoint me. I found his and her myspace in less than a minute.

On the plus side his site says: Here for: Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends. Maybe they aren't too serious
I was polite. That's up to Brent to decide.

He might have the brains of a 14-yr old so they could be a perfect match.

Plz posd sum fotoshopped piks, bro.

Brent, in all seriousness, I bet your neice has more brains than this guy and girls these days aren't shy about telling a boy to fuck off if he gets out of hand.

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Old 09-11-06, 09:48 PM
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Originally Posted by Venusian
just read this comment on his site from his friend. i think a few brain cells died:

ayyyyyy wats good .....shyt nm hea jus busy wit skoo first week was hard and stupid lol i dont lyke none of ma classes and have changed ma schedule more than 5 tymes lol but neways lol i been iight how u been? missed talkin to ur smart booty 2 ;P and rememba u need to take a pic wit u smilin
but get back at me iight
much luv and take care
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Here's one from him to one of his friends:

"Chill Chill, U know ya boi is Representin Tha Ville..................... COMING SOON - 2 Tha VILLE................... It'z Ya Boi............Caz-idy! lol, i need a life, get at me"

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Old 09-11-06, 09:49 PM
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LOL man that is priceless.
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Old 09-11-06, 09:55 PM
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Originally Posted by Douchebag
I Know theres alot of people hating on me, but we dont pay them no mind. Alot has changed in my life over the past month, so Ive had to start making big changes to accomidate those things.
Originally Posted by BrentLumkin's Niece
"well what am I supposed to do about it?"
These seem to add up to pregnant to me.
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Old 09-11-06, 10:03 PM
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Originally Posted by TomOpus
Ask her if she prefers "grandma" "granny" or "gran ma-ma".
Good point.
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Old 09-11-06, 10:14 PM
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We also deficate behind closed doors.
So that's why I keep getting those evil stares. Thanks for the update!
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Old 09-11-06, 10:19 PM
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We also deficate behind closed doors. What's your point?
But most of us do it in a bathroom and not a closet. Evolve a little, would you?
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Old 09-11-06, 10:45 PM
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What a fucking loser.



Doo rag? What in the hell is he doing. Tough guy poses so he can post pictures on mypace? Again, What the shit. Works at Mcdonalds, and owns fake dog tags. When is he moving out of his mom's trailer home?

Seriously, what is going on.
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Old 09-11-06, 10:47 PM
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Totally unacceptable. Even if he is immature, they are STILL in totally different places. This could really fuck with her development of self, understand of intamacy, self esteem, etc. Nothing like getting f'd early and learning that sex = love, and that it is the only thing she is good for. I'm not kidding, i work with girls/women every day who have serious problems are most/all of them had early childhood sexual encounters.

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19/2 + 7 = 16.5

A 19 year-old should be dating no younger than 17. 19 dating 14 is wrong. He must be a loser to have to go to a Jr High School to get a date.
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Totally unacceptable. Even if he is immature, they are STILL in totally different places. This could really fuck with her development of self, understand of intamacy, self esteem, etc. Nothing like getting f'd early and learning that sex = love, and that it is the only thing she is good for. I'm not kidding, i work with girls/women every day who have serious problems are most/all of them had early childhood sexual encounters.

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Just curious, but at what age do you think it is no longer "too early"?
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Old 09-11-06, 11:18 PM
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I'd go over to their house when I know they have a date and make a lot of rude comments to him about what a loser he is and how he needs to date someone his own age. I'd probobly get drunk first too. But that's the type of guy I am....
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Looks like he recently got a new tattoo.

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Originally Posted by Numanoid
Just curious, but at what age do you think it is no longer "too early"?
Nobody is going to prosecute you for your child rape, so just take it easy.

This could really fuck with her development of self,
What kind of hippy speak, psychobabble is this?

I more concerned with her development of the superego, personally.
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Old 09-12-06, 12:01 AM
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Originally Posted by Mrs.Nesbit
I'd go over to their house when I know they have a date and make a lot of rude comments to him about what a loser he is and how he needs to date someone his own age. I'd probobly get drunk first too. But that's the type of guy I am....
Guy? Don't you mean Mrs.?
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Old 09-12-06, 12:15 AM
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Originally Posted by Numanoid
That old argument, eh?

People are animals, and animals mate when they reach puberty. It's only been in the last 100 years that society has determined that to be "sinful".
Animals also mate mainly for reproduction and sometimes kill their own offspring if it's too weak or different looking. Sounds like a winner!
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Old 09-12-06, 12:18 AM
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I don't see what the big deal is. He is lookin for a better job.
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Old 09-12-06, 12:32 AM
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Originally Posted by Numanoid
Just curious, but at what age do you think it is no longer "too early"?
Some of it obviously depends upon maturity, but even a 'mature' 14 year old isn't ready to have sex and/or intimate relations. To be honest....I think 16-17 is probably more appropriate, but that isn't even ideal. I'm not naive enough to think kids will wait, but they really are still kids at 14, 15.

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Old 09-12-06, 12:49 AM
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Shit, I'm still a kid at nearly 40. There's no way I was going to wait for emotional maturity before I started having sex. But that's the great thing about the topic of sex. Everyone thinks that kids should wait until they are very mature and adult enough to have sex...except THEMSELVES, of course.
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