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Old 02-18-05, 09:32 AM
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do you have problems being forceful/blunt?

i dont mean just to be a jerk

but there are times when you need to be forceful or blunt.. In some situations, there just is no way around it..
when dealing with people you dont know, or people you arent really close to and confortable with.. do you have problems being forceful or blunt?
Old 02-18-05, 09:35 AM
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I have the OPPOSITE problem
Old 02-18-05, 09:42 AM
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I have no problem telling people what they need to hear, although I usually try to be tactful about it.
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Fuck no.
Old 02-18-05, 09:46 AM
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Listen, jerk, I DO have a problem being forceful and blunt. I'm just a fucking nice guy, and a bit of a Milquetoast. You got a problem with that, buddy?
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Old 02-18-05, 09:50 AM
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sometimes you have to be, especially with either repair or sales people. You got to let them know whats up and what they need to do about it ASAP. Normally I'll ask for a manager though before I get rude/angry.
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In the real world, you just have to be the biggest Ahole out there to get things your way.

Although it wouldn't hurt if you calm down once in a while.
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NOT ME!!!

...butt, I like to call it being assertive.



THEEK ME!

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Old 02-18-05, 10:28 AM
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I once told a girl, "Shut up and blow me" Does that count?
Old 02-18-05, 10:32 AM
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Originally Posted by Maxwell Smart
I once told a girl, "Shut up and blow me" Does that count?
Only if she blew you.
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nope
Old 02-18-05, 10:42 AM
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I hate beating around the bush, so I'll let them know when I'm not happy with something
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What the...

I posted a response to this thread, and it didn't show up! What the FUCK!!? WHOSE FAULT IS THIS, HUH??? HUH???
Old 02-18-05, 11:21 AM
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Originally Posted by Tommy Ceez
I have the OPPOSITE problem
Can you be from New York and NOT be forceful and blunt? Isn't it like a requirement?
Old 02-18-05, 11:23 AM
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Originally Posted by Suprmallet
What the...

I posted a response to this thread, and it didn't show up! What the FUCK!!? WHOSE FAULT IS THIS, HUH??? HUH???
Calm down mallet man...it's just not worth it.

What?

Maybe you didn't hear me...

I asked you kindly & politely, calm down...

Come on now MM, Calm Down...

CALM Down...

Calm DOWN...

NOW CUT IT OUT!!!

YOU'RE MAKING ME ANGRY!!!

WT...BLOW ME YOURSELF!!!
&

HEY!!! CUT THE CRAP!!! & &

THAT'S IT!!! YO!!! SHE B!!! LET'S GO!!! & & &

STEP OUTSIDE THE THREAD!!! & & & &

&

BAD "ACTING" THEEK! (...or is he? )

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No, and by the way you're ugly.
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I saw a couple of assertive jerks yesterday on the bus. One of em was trying to catch another bus and was really worried about making it to his stop on time. He made sure everyone on the bus knew about it He sees another bus and asks the driver to honk, asks if he can get off the bus before the stop, etc. etc.

Well the driver is finally getting annoyed and tells him that wasn't even his bus, it said "To Terminal". Then a guy sitting in front out of nowhere tells the guy to get his head out of his ass before he opens his mouth next time, to which he responds, "Why don't you shut your mouth?" Then he ran off the bus
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Originally Posted by ChiTownAbs, Inc
I hate eating around the bush
fixed
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I think you all are . . .

I mean, you should . . .

I . . .



Oh nevrmind . . .
Old 02-19-05, 12:17 PM
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Sometimes you just gotta do it.

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