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Old 10-05-04, 12:10 PM
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Crush and Love.

Is it natural for a married man in love with his wife to have a crush on a co-worker?

Call it what you want, crush, Infatuation or whatever, but I got it.

Anyone here in the same situation? I don't plan on acting on any of my feelings, just a little flirting.
Old 10-05-04, 12:13 PM
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tend to be more attracted to things we know we can't have

which is why i just can't stop following groucho around the forum and reading his posts.
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Yeah, its pretty natural...Im happily married and in love with my wife, but I have a crush on her friend. She knows it, and doesnt care, she finds it funny. In fact she has told me I could hit it if I wanted too...Im not falling for that trick though.
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Originally posted by FantasticVSDoom
Yeah, its pretty natural...Im happily married and in love with my wife, but I have a crush on her friend. She knows it, and doesnt care, she finds it funny. In fact she has told me I could hit it if I wanted too...Im not falling for that trick though.
hmm sounds like the wife is subtly suggesting a threesome.
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just tell the guy at the burger barn how you feel
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Originally posted by j123vt_99
just tell the guy at the burger barn how you feel
How did you know? Actually it is you!

My wife must have some idea, as much as I talk about and joke about having the hots for this person.

They are going to meet on Thursday for the first time. It will be weird for me.

Here is an email exchange we had today, feel free to read between the lines and decipher for me.

Me: Are you going to [Thursday night work function]?

Her: It depends aren't you taking me on a date…. Ha ahahahahaha!

Me: Yeah, I'll tell [wife] that I have to work late that night and we can go out instead.

Her: HA HA HA Ha she would kick my ass

Me: Not if she doesn't find out…. Where are we going to go?

Her: jaelliot You are crazy….. Are you going to [local sporting event]
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Did anybody mention a threesome yet?
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And next we have the Jaelliot threesome, teeing off on hole #1. Jaelliot pulls out his wood and is ready to stroke his balls.
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dude, she calls you jaelliot?





She wants you!
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Originally posted by Trelach24
dude, she calls you jaelliot?





She wants you!
Close, she actually calls me by my work login or last name, which is similar. You think I am in then?
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I don't want to be a party pooper but...You are treading on treacherous ground. Nothing wrong in having a crush but that's all it should be. Flirting is one thing acting on it when you're married is another. I know what ever you decide...it won't be easy.
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Originally posted by jaelliot
Here is an email exchange we had today, feel free to read between the lines and decipher for me.
I think it means [interpretation]. I think the only reasonable course of action is [response], which you should do [time].
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Originally posted by Adam Tyner
I think it means [interpretation]. I think the only reasonable course of action is [response], which you should do [time].
... with [condiment] and [leather accessory].
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Originally posted by Adam Tyner
I think it means [interpretation]. I think the only reasonable course of action is [response], which you should do [time].
I guess I was a little paranoid about giving out too much personal info.


The chances of anything happening between us are slim and none. I probably would not act if it was available and it is probably not available anyway.
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probably?


I hope your wife doesn't read this forum
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Don't forget to [bodily function] in her [orifice]!
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And take the lump [math term].
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Make sure [pronoun] fuck [pronoun] in [article] ass.

Hmm ... I'm not sure I did that right.

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Originally posted by JasonF
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el oh el
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Originally posted by fnordboy
Don't forget to [bodily function] in her [orifice]!
<3 eye socket farting
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wow. I'm sorry, but this sounds like you really need to get ahold of this situation. In that e-mail, it looks to me like you are hitting on her. Bad news.

How would you feel if you found out your wife was having convesations like this herself?
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• Penny Lane •

How would you feel if you found out your wife was having convesations like this herself?
With a cute woman?

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Penny lane is corrrrect! Looks like you are heading towards a brick wall and all you are doing is gunning it.

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