Sexual Harassment/Assault & Abuse in Hollywood -- Discussion
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re: Sexual Harassment/Assault & Abuse in Hollywood -- Discussion
I have no issue giving the benefit to the accuser if their story has enough detail to be believable.
My issue with this particular story relates back to the Duke Lacrosse case. Those kids were ruined based on one story before any investigation was done. In this case, Chris wasn't even named and he's already taken the fall. Due process should still be a thing. Even if she were to come out and say she lied about everything, it would still be super awkward for him to go back on air as if nothing happened. The damage is done.
My issue with this particular story relates back to the Duke Lacrosse case. Those kids were ruined based on one story before any investigation was done. In this case, Chris wasn't even named and he's already taken the fall. Due process should still be a thing. Even if she were to come out and say she lied about everything, it would still be super awkward for him to go back on air as if nothing happened. The damage is done.
#2502
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re: Sexual Harassment/Assault & Abuse in Hollywood -- Discussion
That’s also a reason I tend to at least give the benefit of the doubt to accusers when it’s not completely obvious what they have to gain.
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#2505
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As I've said before, I will eat my words if more detail comes out.
That being said, I've known people like this before. They make things up or greatly embellish things which have happened for the sake of being the victim and getting sympathy from people. They crave positive attention and find that being a victim of something is an easy way to get it. Slippery slope. For example; standard fare relationship fights over a few years = years of mental abuse. No...you were just in a shitty relationship with the wrong person.
That being said, I've known people like this before. They make things up or greatly embellish things which have happened for the sake of being the victim and getting sympathy from people. They crave positive attention and find that being a victim of something is an easy way to get it. Slippery slope. For example; standard fare relationship fights over a few years = years of mental abuse. No...you were just in a shitty relationship with the wrong person.
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I’m certainly not saying that happened, just a more likely scenario than a wide conspiracy to keep Dykstra down. And who knows, if something along those lines IS the truth, I have no doubt sexism is still alive and well in Hollywood despite the #metoo movement. She may very well have blacklisted herself when she came out with that story.
That’s also a reason I tend to at least give the benefit of the doubt to accusers when it’s not completely obvious what they have to gain.
That’s also a reason I tend to at least give the benefit of the doubt to accusers when it’s not completely obvious what they have to gain.
As I've said before, I will eat my words if more detail comes out.
That being said, I've known people like this before. They make things up or greatly embellish things which have happened for the sake of being the victim and getting sympathy from people. They crave positive attention and find that being a victim of something is an easy way to get it. Slippery slope. For example; standard fare relationship fights over a few years = years of mental abuse. No...you were just in a shitty relationship with the wrong person.
That being said, I've known people like this before. They make things up or greatly embellish things which have happened for the sake of being the victim and getting sympathy from people. They crave positive attention and find that being a victim of something is an easy way to get it. Slippery slope. For example; standard fare relationship fights over a few years = years of mental abuse. No...you were just in a shitty relationship with the wrong person.
But I also don't think Chris has been "shut down" or ignored as if no one wants to hear his side.
#2507
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That would indicate that all companies were about to let him go anyway. Theres not been any news of issues otherwise.
This is all because he was 'accused' and it's kinda bullshit. People's lives are being ruined because of hearsay.
I'm not really a fan of his. Fact I think he's kinda looks like he can be a dick. I've always thought this about him. But you cant go terminating people without proof. Imagine you're at work and someone says you spit in their coffee and you get fired and they have no proof other than their word.
This is all because he was 'accused' and it's kinda bullshit. People's lives are being ruined because of hearsay.
I'm not really a fan of his. Fact I think he's kinda looks like he can be a dick. I've always thought this about him. But you cant go terminating people without proof. Imagine you're at work and someone says you spit in their coffee and you get fired and they have no proof other than their word.
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That would indicate that all companies were about to let him go anyway. Theres not been any news of issues otherwise.
This is all because he was 'accused' and it's kinda bullshit. People's lives are being ruined because of hearsay.
I'm not really a fan of his. Fact I think he's kinda looks like he can be a dick. I've always thought this about him. But you cant go terminating people without proof. Imagine you're at work and someone says you spit in their coffee and you get fired and they have no proof other than their word.
This is all because he was 'accused' and it's kinda bullshit. People's lives are being ruined because of hearsay.
I'm not really a fan of his. Fact I think he's kinda looks like he can be a dick. I've always thought this about him. But you cant go terminating people without proof. Imagine you're at work and someone says you spit in their coffee and you get fired and they have no proof other than their word.
But isn't Hollywood all 1099's? They can hire and fire as they please. People get fired for fucked up shit ALL THE TIME...but that's where the courts come in. If Chris has proof she is lying, he will get paid. If not, or if he did it then he's fucked. But you know, some also have clauses in their contracts about causing controversy, scandals, making the company name look bad, etc. So I hate to sound like a corporate shill, but again, they may have legit reason for cutting ties.
#2509
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I do agree on the clauses in their contracts thing. It probably sucks to be an attorney in Hollywood. I'd hate to have to read all the pages of fine print.
#2511
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I get that.
But isn't Hollywood all 1099's? They can hire and fire as they please. People get fired for fucked up shit ALL THE TIME...but that's where the courts come in. If Chris has proof she is lying, he will get paid. If not, or if he did it then he's fucked. But you know, some also have clauses in their contracts about causing controversy, scandals, making the company name look bad, etc. So I hate to sound like a corporate shill, but again, they may have legit reason for cutting ties.
But isn't Hollywood all 1099's? They can hire and fire as they please. People get fired for fucked up shit ALL THE TIME...but that's where the courts come in. If Chris has proof she is lying, he will get paid. If not, or if he did it then he's fucked. But you know, some also have clauses in their contracts about causing controversy, scandals, making the company name look bad, etc. So I hate to sound like a corporate shill, but again, they may have legit reason for cutting ties.
At this point, whether he did or didn’t do it almost doesn’t matter to a large corporation paying him to portray a certain image.
It’s just business.
#2512
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The problem is though, that allegations like this don't just put a person out of work. It damages their lives.
Like someone accused of rape. Even when proven innocent after a trail, the stigma is still there and people still look at the person a certain way. It sticks with them. Poele will still always have a small piece of doubt and wonder and maybe a feeling about that person even when proven innocent.
Like someone accused of rape. Even when proven innocent after a trail, the stigma is still there and people still look at the person a certain way. It sticks with them. Poele will still always have a small piece of doubt and wonder and maybe a feeling about that person even when proven innocent.
#2513
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No, what it shows is what I tried to explain earlier - different people bring out different behaviors out of different people. You can be the sweetest person to one person, and an absolute monster to another. And yes, this is your fault, not the other person for bringing out this "beast" in you.
Say wha....??
#2514
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The problem is though, that allegations like this don't just put a person out of work. It damages their lives.
Like someone accused of rape. Even when proven innocent after a trail, the stigma is still there and people still look at the person a certain way. It sticks with them. Poele will still always have a small piece of doubt and wonder and maybe a feeling about that person even when proven innocent.
Like someone accused of rape. Even when proven innocent after a trail, the stigma is still there and people still look at the person a certain way. It sticks with them. Poele will still always have a small piece of doubt and wonder and maybe a feeling about that person even when proven innocent.
Personally I am for the #metoo movement and for the exposure of the seedy underbelly of Hollywood. I have long believed that Hollywood is full of a bunch of hypocrites that think they are more progressive than the rest of the country but let a person like Weinstein prey on innocent people with impunity. And KNOW about it and CONTINUE to work with him.
#2515
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Bullshit. Where do you see anyone keeping Hardwick quiet? Hell, we'd all love to hear his side AND see her proof. What you DO see are some people actively defending Chris H, and others who are saying she "could be" telling the truth. And NONE of the latter have told Chris to shut up or that they don't want to hear his side. That is not the same as "men can't say anything".
#2516
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I still think there is some truth to what she has said. Fame changes people and it seems like most of the women that have come forward to support him dated him before he got very popular. If the relationship with Dykstra was happening when he was experiencing all of these changes, he could have been very strict, controlling, and acting like he was better than her (inside and outside the bedroom). That shit goes to your head very easily.
We had a friend that completely changed once the bad he was in started getting very big and started opening up and touring with other bands. The few times I interacted with him during that time was completely different than the person I knew before then.
That being said I'm still very curious to see what "evidence" she has on him. That could easily be the big answer to all of this. And having him go completely silent on everything (no social media, no new podcasts, etc.) doesn't look good either. Even if the lawyers told him not to say anything about the subject, I don't see why he couldn't go on living his life and not talking about it on those platforms.
We had a friend that completely changed once the bad he was in started getting very big and started opening up and touring with other bands. The few times I interacted with him during that time was completely different than the person I knew before then.
That being said I'm still very curious to see what "evidence" she has on him. That could easily be the big answer to all of this. And having him go completely silent on everything (no social media, no new podcasts, etc.) doesn't look good either. Even if the lawyers told him not to say anything about the subject, I don't see why he couldn't go on living his life and not talking about it on those platforms.
#2517
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re: Sexual Harassment/Assault & Abuse in Hollywood -- Discussion
I'm still not clear whether she's saying she has evidence of his alleged sexual abuse, or his supposed trying to get her blackballed from the industry, or both.
#2518
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re: Sexual Harassment/Assault & Abuse in Hollywood -- Discussion
It’s hard to say but I would think that any evidence is probably something along the lines of emails from Hardwick to industry higher ups suggesting Dykstra was trouble and a risk to hire. What else could she have? I’ve got my doubts that some sort of rape video exists.
#2519
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re: Sexual Harassment/Assault & Abuse in Hollywood -- Discussion
I read some of the comments in that tweet that Alexander posted about Hardwick. Let's just say she's getting mostly negative responses from women.
But, she is sticking up for her friend.
But, she is sticking up for her friend.
#2520
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Harvey Weinstein on Monday was charged with more sex crimes In New York, according to the Manhattan District Attorney's office.
The new charges against Weinstein include an additional count of criminal sexual act in the first degree for a forcible sexual act against a third woman in 2006, as well as two counts of predatory sexual assault, a Class A-II felony.
"A Manhattan Grand Jury has now indicted Harvey Weinstein on some of the most serious sexual offenses that exist under New York’s Penal Law,” district attorney Cyrus Vance said in a statement. “This indictment is the result of the extraordinary courage exhibited by the survivors who have come forward. Our investigation continues."
The disgraced Hollywood mogul was previously charged with rape in the first and third degrees, as well as criminal sexual act in the first degree, for forcible sexual acts against two women in 2013 and 2004, respectively.
In early June, Weinstein pleaded not guilty to the original charges.
The new charges against Weinstein include an additional count of criminal sexual act in the first degree for a forcible sexual act against a third woman in 2006, as well as two counts of predatory sexual assault, a Class A-II felony.
"A Manhattan Grand Jury has now indicted Harvey Weinstein on some of the most serious sexual offenses that exist under New York’s Penal Law,” district attorney Cyrus Vance said in a statement. “This indictment is the result of the extraordinary courage exhibited by the survivors who have come forward. Our investigation continues."
The disgraced Hollywood mogul was previously charged with rape in the first and third degrees, as well as criminal sexual act in the first degree, for forcible sexual acts against two women in 2013 and 2004, respectively.
In early June, Weinstein pleaded not guilty to the original charges.
#2521
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re: Sexual Harassment/Assault & Abuse in Hollywood -- Discussion
I hope Harvey gets raped in prison every day until he dies.
#2522
DVD Talk Hero
re: Sexual Harassment/Assault & Abuse in Hollywood -- Discussion
And according to Harvey, he still thinks Hollywood is going to forgive him.
The dude is fucked...literally when he goes to prison.
The dude is fucked...literally when he goes to prison.
#2523
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I'm still not clear whether she's saying she has evidence of his alleged sexual abuse, or his supposed trying to get her blackballed from the industry, or both.
That being said I'm still very curious to see what "evidence" she has on him. That could easily be the big answer to all of this. And having him go completely silent on everything (no social media, no new podcasts, etc.) doesn't look good either. Even if the lawyers told him not to say anything about the subject, I don't see why he couldn't go on living his life and not talking about it on those platforms.
Because it would be following him regardless? Seriously, when has anyone ever accused of something like this ever gone about their normal life? The accusations are always following them around and tend to keep following them around. You really have no choice but to stay silent.
I'm still not clear whether she's saying she has evidence of his alleged sexual abuse, or his supposed trying to get her blackballed from the industry, or both.
Supposedly she says that Hardwick blackballed her from the industry but here is the problem. Her most notable roles in Hollywood are Spiderman 2(Train Passenger) and Drag Me To Hell(couple at diner). Everything else she has done has been YouTube type stuff and cosplay modeling. So she really has not been lighting the world on fire.
#2524
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Brown is replacing Hardwick for TWD panel at SDCC:
https://deadline.com/2018/07/yvette-...el-1202421202/
https://deadline.com/2018/07/yvette-...el-1202421202/
#2525
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Brown is replacing Hardwick for TWD panel at SDCC:
https://deadline.com/2018/07/yvette-...el-1202421202/
https://deadline.com/2018/07/yvette-...el-1202421202/