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Originally Posted by pedagogue
*That* could address my concern, but you ignored it until you ran out of things to argue, god forbid you don't get the last word.
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Originally Posted by Houstondon
Brave, you consider the cover pornographic and I don't. Your entire argument is based on that point therefore there isn't anything else to discuss. However I sound to you (again, I reflect back what people toss onto me first; you were the one bandying my name about unfavorably that drew me into the discussion too), your point of view has been duly recorded, openly discussed, and presented as evidence of what I predicted would happen. Your discontent that I have NOT violated the rules has also been acknowledged though given the tone of your posts, I'm sure you'd be reporting me to everyone possible if I had.
Since you mention it; my friendship with G! does mean I feel obligated to discuss disagreement to established rules and policies with him first. This goes hand in hand with being one of the long term content providers of the website and I consider it a courtesy to hash things out with him directly before throwing temper tantrums in public forums. Don't get upset when I mix general comments about the mindset a few members have either, it allows me to address the broader issue at hand rather than spin my wheels against people that are adamant about a factual issue (ie: Chinese genre or pornography) that is questionable at best. It is true that I brought your name into this first, and admittedly, in somewhat poor taste. The reason comes from past discussion where it has been pretty evident that you were trying to skirt the "name calling" rules by making general statements to those who would disagree with you, and I would certainly be included in that crowd and felt the brunt of your generalities. I felt it was appropriate to bring your name into the discussion given how active you have been in past discussions, and I was trying to head off the (what I felt was) inevitable post from you agreeing with the absolute posting of that cover. I should have addressed it specifically to you in the post without just dropping your name. The idea that I'm calling you on NOT following the rules isn't the point. It's the fact that you are doing everything possible with the English language to make sure we know what name you are calling us and then flaunt the fact that you did it within the rules of the forum. And then have the audacity to state that you're good friends with Geoff, and the not-so-subtle impression that you're above us in the pecking order if it came down to it. That doesn't and won't sit well, no matter how much you are abiding to the letter of the law. There is absolutely no question in my mind that most fair-minded people would consider that DVD cover pornographic. And I'm sure that you feel the same that fair-minded people must not consider that cover pornographic. That's the inherent difference. I feel that I'm in the majority on that issue, but that's irrelevant to the argument. What I was asking for Geoff to consider further addressing the issue of defining pornography more than the current "what Amazon uses." And the answer is also irrelevant, I admire the hell out of Geoff for what he's built here, and I will abide by any decision he makes for his forum. The idea that you "predicted" the fact that two people having open sex (with a few well-placed dots) being splashed on most of the forum would cause some responses doesn't seem like it would take psychic powers. I think your prediction feeds more into the fact that the majority of folks would simply consider that image pornographic, and whether or not they mind it being posted is a completely separate argument. |
...and yes, I would consider every one of those DVDs to be offensive, save for the Pornography Prostitution USA. But they're only slightly offensive to me, and I would have no issue if my mother-in-law or work colleague (not actually at work) were to be referred by me to a site that contained those images. But I would not deem them "pornographic" which is the distinction I am trying to make here.
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Do any of them have two people have sex on it?
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Originally Posted by pedagogue
My msg disappeared...........?
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Wow.
How is that cover not pornographic? |
Why hasn't the cover been taken down yet? I love DVDTalk, and I can't view this site at work, so I'm not all that pissed about the pic but the line needs to be drawn. Apparently, the real money is in porn because this site started out great but has given more and more access to porn. The fact that we're discussing porn on DVDTalk is bad enough.
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Originally Posted by abrg923
Wow.
How is that cover not pornographic? Which is ridiculous, as anyone who looks at that knows it looks like the cover of an adult video. |
I'd say its pornographic too. Don't really care so much for my own viewership of the site though.
I'd also agree that Houstondon's generalizations should constitute at least a warning, since it's obviously directed at specific people and seems like a personal attack :shrug: |
Originally Posted by fumanstan
I'd also agree that Houstondon's generalizations should constitute at least a warning, since it's obviously directed at specific people and seems like a personal attack :shrug:
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Originally Posted by Draven
Because Amazon posts it. Amazon = non-pornographic, at least according to the reasons listed in here.
Which is ridiculous As a rule of thumb, the Amazon logic is perfectly sound, although I'd consider this cover to be an anomaly.
Originally Posted by PopcornTreeCt
Why hasn't the cover been taken down yet?
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Originally Posted by Draven
Because Amazon posts it. Amazon = non-pornographic, at least according to the reasons listed in here.
Which is ridiculous, as anyone who looks at that knows it looks like the cover of an adult video. As far as the person before who asked why it hasn't taken down...DVDTalk was sold. That was the end of the quick response on issues such as these. |
Originally Posted by BravesMG
That's a mostly fair post, that I will try and respond fairly to, even though there certainly are some digs in there that I don't appreciate. I have done the same to you, and I'll try to avoid it, but it's tough if we're going to try and rise above the discussion if I'm still being jabbed. It is true that I brought your name into this first, and admittedly, in somewhat poor taste....
What I was asking for Geoff to consider further addressing the issue of defining pornography more than the current "what Amazon uses." And the answer is also irrelevant, I admire the hell out of Geoff for what he's built here, and I will abide by any decision he makes for his forum. Like Adam, I believe the title in question is NOT pornographic even if the cover could be but for the censoring red stars (I'm not going to argue the couple could be dancing as someone suggested to me via email, though it was a cute comment) but the nuances tend to get lost in the personality clashes so as I said before, I understand your point and I'm more sympathetic to it than you probably think. I've tried to point out that the bigger picture requires looking at the issue from outside our personal levels of comfort; posting other covers that some might find offensive too. There are thousands of members from all over the world and I rail at the idea that DVD Talk should cater to the most sensitive readers every time the topic comes up.
Originally Posted by PopcornCT
Why hasn't the cover been taken down yet? I love DVDTalk, and I can't view this site at work, so I'm not all that pissed about the pic but the line needs to be drawn. Apparently, the real money is in porn because this site started out great but has given more and more access to porn. The fact that we're discussing porn on DVDTalk is bad enough.
Originally Posted by Fumanstan
I'd say its pornographic too. Don't really care so much for my own viewership of the site though.
Originally Posted by Adam
This thread's been around for a few days now; if the cover were going to be taken down, it would've happened already. I'm kind of surprised there hasn't been a "final word" followed by a lock, really.
Originally Posted by abrg923
I could care less if Amazon posts it...it's clearly pornographic. Anyone who says otherwise is in denial, championing its use for their own selfish reasons.
As far as the person before who asked why it hasn't taken down...DVDTalk was sold. That was the end of the quick response on issues such as these. As far as the unfair comment on responses dictated by ownership; G! is still very active as the website manager and "X" himself, the long time Administrator of the forums, responded about a half hour after the initial post was made. Just because a few people are offended by a cover does NOT mean it will be immediately taken down and these threads have been common enough over the years to prove that point (which several of you know firsthand having participated in them when G! shot you down previously). |
Originally Posted by Houstondon
The title is not pornographic even if the cover is in bad taste for a Baptist Sunday School gathering (even with the censoring stars).
And we aren't talking about the movie itself. It doesn't matter what the content of the movie is, unless that's being streamed onto the site too. We are only talking about what we can see just browsing the forum, and this cover is over the line :shrug: It's not even debatable - it's clearly a dude fucking a chick and the only reason we can't see more is because they put little circles over the naughty bits. |
Originally Posted by Draven
You keep saying things like this. Do you honestly believe that the only people who would be offended by the cover or consider it pornographic are hyper-religious churchgoers? Really?
PS: Baptists aren't even close to being "hyper-religious" compared to a number of other religions but lets save that discussion for another day. |
Originally Posted by Houstondon
The title is not pornographic even if the cover is in bad taste for a Baptist Sunday School gathering (even with the censoring stars). I did not write the review, direct the movie, or otherwise gain from it's inclusion here in any way, shape or form so I'd ask you how are your motivations less selfish?
I'd say the cover is in bad taste for more than just that, but I appreciate the blatant sarcasm. Also, my motivations? I don't have any. I could care less personally if the ad stays or goes, I'm just pointing out that to say it's not pornographic is ridiculous. As far as the unfair comment on responses dictated by ownership; G! is still very active as the website manager and "X" himself, the long time Administrator of the forums, responded about a half hour after the initial post was made. Just because a few people are offended by a cover does NOT mean it will be immediately taken down and these threads have been common enough over the years to prove that point (which several of you know firsthand having participated in them when G! shot you down previously). |
As far as the Amazon rule goes, all I can say to that is that on Amazon, you're not just randomly browsing and having that pop up - here, you are.
In fairness, Don, I believe you may be too close to the situation (being the reviewer of X-Critic or whatever it is you do, not 100% sure, but I know you deal with a lot of adult films) to make an unbiased judgment on it. |
Originally Posted by Houstondon
Thanks for your input, even if logically, "generalizations" aren't "personal attacks". If you think "I" should be warned for this, you must be considering a request to ban a few of the others for going much further though. ;)
As a side note to this discussion, I remember pictures of a large number of women in bikinis were removed because they were deemed NSFW. If we want to talk about consistency, I'd argue that anything that is suitable to be posted as a review picture should be postable in regular discussion. |
Originally Posted by Houstondon
That was my nod to the suggestion the cover could be explained as the couple dancing as much as the notion that ANY standard is going to leave SOME people unhappy. "Safe For Work" (SFW) gets bandied about in these discussions all the time but it begets the question of what work you're talking about. If you work at LFP, it's a pretty tame cover while a job at NOW Headquarters would have people up in arms over a great many other covers too. I "keep saying things like this" to get a few of you to look to the bigger picture and consider that there is no such thing as a universal standard about what constitutes SFW any more than what would be inoffensive to any possible member reading this website.
PS: Baptists aren't even close to being "hyper-religious" compared to a number of other religions but lets save that discussion for another day. -p |
Originally Posted by fumanstan
Like I said, they're obviously directed at certain individuals; especially when you've pointed out how only a small few constantly complain. I'm pretty sure i've seen moderator action (like i said, just a warning) for others that have done so.
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Originally Posted by abrg923
Also, my motivations? I don't have any. I could care less personally if the ad stays or goes, I'm just pointing out that to say it's not pornographic is ridiculous.
I'm just saying what happens every single time a site like this is sold. Concerns begin to be ignored. There's a major difference between shooting them down and ignoring them completely. Again, I have no ball in this game...just pointing out what usually happens. Your secondary comment about the website going to pot since the takeover was a specific claim that I was glad to see you take back with a generalization here. As pointed out, the Administrator replied to the poorly worded title/original posting very quickly with an answer. He didn't happen to like the answer and has since continued to respond.
Originally Posted by abrg923
In fairness, Don, I believe you may be too close to the situation (being the reviewer of X-Critic or whatever it is you do, not 100% sure, but I know you deal with a lot of adult films) to make an unbiased judgment on it.
Originally Posted by fumanstan
Like I said, they're obviously directed at certain individuals; especially when you've pointed out how only a small few constantly complain. I'm pretty sure i've seen moderator action (like i said, just a warning) for others that have done so. Not much different if someone were to criticize all the "sex crazed perverts" that feel pornographic material should be allowed to be plastered everywhere on the site when only one or two people have been openly defending the case. Not trying to bash you, just an observation from someone that doesn't care about the picture or trying to make some sort of stand for the site as a whole. As a side note to this discussion, I remember pictures of a large number of women in bikinis were removed because they were deemed NSFW. If we want to talk about consistency, I'd argue that anything that is suitable to be posted as a review picture should be postable in regular discussion.
Lastly, before the thread gets closed (as I suspect it will today), if you want something changed here; propose a workable solution in your grievance thread. Peda aksed a question that was almost immediately answered by an Admin (THE Admin actually) and then the topic raged on. I argue the limits of the discussion because that is where the heart of the issue truly is; something the OP is quite familiar with in other threads I've read where he participated. I've asked questions repeatedly of those taking issue with the cover since they didn't like the "Amazon standard" and to date, none have provided a workable answer but on the slim chance one of you comes up with something better than my own suggestion; feel free to let me know via email. Thanks! |
Originally Posted by pedagogue
I reported his posts yesterday, let's see if there is any action taken. I know if I made generalized statements about homosexuals or a racial minority it probably would be actionable.
-p (neither having anything to do with the topic at hand; talk about curious logic...) |
I'll restate our policy as it seems like a good time to restate it.
Any DVD which is sent to us and is sold via amazon we will absolutely review and pull the cover art from Amazon to display on the site. If you have issue with a cover or title and do not feel it should be sold in a mainstream store, then you really should email amazon with your complaint. We do not have a 'standards and practices' team looking at every cover that goes up, we assume that on a site which is considered safe for work, they would not display any images or content that they considered offensive. If you have an issue with this policy. Please contact our lead at Internet Brands [email protected]. As they are the owners of the site and ultimately set or modify policy here. In terms of adult content, any and all adult content on this site was completely spun off to <a href="http://www.xcritic.com">XCritic.com</a>. And DVD Talk now in no way profits, sells or promotes adult content. <a href="http://www.xcritic.com">XCritic.com</a> however does :) |
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