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Giggles 06-14-07 03:56 PM


Originally Posted by eedoon
Well, we all probably know that Asia (where I live in) is one of the biggest market for bootlegs. In here, everyone buys pirated DVDs. Only few people (including me) who keep buying legitimate DVD and staying away from bootlegs.

Same here in Russia. When I try to ask somebody why they don't buy legitimate DVDs, they usually say: who needs those fancy editions for $20-30 when I can buy a disc with 8 movies on it for $3? That's just frightening IMO.

Gobear 06-14-07 04:04 PM

This Onion story seems apropos.

uncle-frank 06-14-07 04:10 PM

i agree with Jackson_Browne, i only kno one other person with a dvd collection as well as cd collection on par with mine. im seriously considering just going cold turkey for a year just to see how much money i would save.

asianxcore 06-14-07 04:19 PM

Nope. I'm not out to judge another person's taste in movies, especially my friends.

I enjoy the fact that we like a lot of different movies/genres, as well as share some. In fact it is because of my friends varied tastes in movies that have opened my eyes to great movies I wouldn't watch normally.

harpo787 06-14-07 04:28 PM


Originally Posted by RobCA
Personally, I'm proud of my Friends collection. All 10 seasons, baby! :up:

;) Rob

I've got all the Seinfeld dvds that have been released, a FAR more intelligent sitcom then those crappy friends! Seinfeld, those guys are the REAL friends! Only a LOSER would buy Friends! -wink-

HokieGAK 06-14-07 04:30 PM


Originally Posted by Gobear
The problem is that you are making the implicit, and wholly unwarranted, assumption that your aesthetic tastes are objectively superior, that any film you dislike thus cannot have any merit, and anyone can only enjoy that film if he's an unlettered boob.

Who made you the DVDTalk Arbiter Elegantiarum? By which criteria can you demonstrate your superior cinematic judgment?

Movies are entertainment, not medicine. For example, Ikiru is one of my favorite films, and I watch it because the lead character's struggle to perform one decent act in his life before he dies speaks to me. I own the DVD because I enjoy the movie, not to show off my "refinement."

I'm doing no such thing. I said that if someone has those movies, *I* will not trust their movie recommendations. I never said that Gobear shouldn't trust them, or that the DVDTalk community shouldn't trust them, or that they were inherently bad.

I also never claimed to have superior cinematic judgment. I do have a desire to watch what I would consider to be decent movies, and I can't imagine anyone who would willingly sit through The Matrix and even purchase a copy sharing my tastes.

You're making as many or more assumptions about me based on my desire to pick who I get movie recommendations from as you claim I make about the movie-going public. Mayhap we should both tread more carefully?

I've never seen Ikiru. Based on your description (and what I've heard in the past), maybe I should check it out. Since you've not yet said specifically whether or not you own any of the Matrix films, I can safely do that. :D

thomkai 06-14-07 04:37 PM


Originally Posted by rennervision
I do think people are reading more into what you're saying than what is really there. Maybe you should have indicated all your friend's DVDs were fullscreen. I'm sure everyone would be on your side then. :)

Actually a lot of them were FS, I think he does most of his shopping at Wal-Mart, so he just gets random things in Full-Screen. At least he's hopefully only paying a few dollars for them!

And are people still keeping up with "Your friend needs new friends" and "Anyone that petty doesn't deserve friends"?

I really wish I could change the thread title because I think a lot of people aren't reading beyond that. He was a friend of a friend, kind of like acquaintance, I was told he had a large collection, and I was interested in seeing what he had but he had nothing that interested me. He is of course entitled to like whatever he wants, but I just really wanted to go look at my movies. Of course I'm not this crazy jerk some here seem to think I am, so I just sort of let my other friend who was with me pick something out and was silent.

Seriously I feel like I've been attacked for no reason. Point of the thread was to ask if anyone ever feels that way: you see someones movies for the first time and wonder why they have what they have. The onion article is exactly it. Random weird stuff that I don't imagine ever saying, "I want to buy Josie and the Pussycats" (but to be fair I have a GIANT poster of them on my wall, which I got from a friend at a theater. I just like how big it is :P)

At least some people seem to get what I'm asking and the weird personal attacks are becoming less frequent.

If anything, flame for the Pussycats poster! :P

DoubleDownAgain 06-14-07 04:39 PM


Originally Posted by HokieGAK
I'm doing no such thing. I said that if someone has those movies, *I* will not trust their movie recommendations. I never said that Gobear shouldn't trust them, or that the DVDTalk community shouldn't trust them, or that they were inherently bad.

I also never claimed to have superior cinematic judgment. I do have a desire to watch what I would consider to be decent movies, and I can't imagine anyone who would willingly sit through The Matrix and even purchase a copy sharing my tastes.

You're making as many or more assumptions about me based on my desire to pick who I get movie recommendations from as you claim I make about the movie-going public. Mayhap we should both tread more carefully?

I've never seen Ikiru. Based on your description (and what I've heard in the past), maybe I should check it out. Since you've not yet said specifically whether or not you own any of the Matrix films, I can safely do that. :D

I own all the SW and Matrix movies, so does that my opinion is nullified on every genre of film? For example, I personally can't stand Anime but I'm not going to assume because someone has Anime in their collection that they couldn't recommend a movie I might enjoy. I'm sure there are alot of people that share your taste on many different films that own SW and/or the Matrix. I can understand them not being your taste, but it seems rather foolish to assume any two people are going to like every movie exactly the same.

harpo787 06-14-07 04:43 PM


Originally Posted by thomkai
Lol, took me a second to see what you did there...

It's even funnier that I didn't even pick up on it until you mentioned it.

For what it's worth (not much) it just seems a bit judgmental to be ashamed/embarrassed etc. about someone else's collection (at least the thread you mentioned contains people who are asking to be rated/judged). It must be one f'd up collection to be embarrassing through and through! I could see looking through and spotting a film or two and thinking or even saying to the person "Holy crap...you have Showgirls?"

Not to mention it sounds like your friend has a non-collection!

If anything, there are times where I'm a bit embarrassed by a few things in my collection that are guilty pleasure films (no not the pornos!).

EDIT: Someone was judging those who enjoy Nicolas Cage enough to intentionally collect his films. I have 4 films of his (that I can think of)...is that minimum enough, or is it like 5 or more? :lol:

thomkai 06-14-07 04:47 PM

The guy did have one of the coolest collections of Star Trek toys and paraphernalia I've ever seen IRL. I don't know a lot of trekies, but geez, he had some cool stuff. Walls lined with toys, ala 40 year old virgin.

harpo787 06-14-07 05:01 PM


Originally Posted by HokieGAK
Any collection I see including any of the Matrix films, I will by default assume belongs to someone whose tastes are not at all refined (and will therefore not respect any movie recommendation that they make) until presented with a sworn affidavit showing that it was either a regrettable blind buy, a gift, or was purchased to be used in a psychological experiment to test the effects of absolute garbage on the human mind.

Better?

Not a direct response to HokieGAK (interesting name!) but rather a general reaction: I believe we have an IGNORE feature here in the forum. I've never used it, so I'm not sure. I propose a "MOVIE REVIEW IGNORE" feature....so you can just ignore someone's movie reviews but you don't have to miss other posts by them!

Joel Goodsen 06-14-07 05:30 PM

I always find it interesting to look at other peoples collections but I never pass judgment too harsh. I have a huge variety of taste in films. I own Kickboxer, Leprechaun, Drop Dead Fred, American Graffiti, Friday the 13th...even the Bloodfist collection with the one and only Don THE DRAGON Wilson. But then I also own films like Lost In Translation, Casino, Goodfellas, Ghost World, Y Tu Mama Tambien, Beautiful Girls and One Flew Over The Cuckoos Nest.

When my DVDs are jumbled about abit, it doesnt worry me if anyone was to see Captain Ron next to The Godfather.

DVDho78DTS 06-14-07 05:49 PM


Originally Posted by HokieGAK
I'm doing no such thing. I said that if someone has those movies, *I* will not trust their movie recommendations.

I can see where you are coming from. Personally, I own the first Matrix and all the Star Wars films and consider them good entertainment, however, like yourself, I will not trust someone's movie recommendations if they own The Scorpion King or You've Got Mail in their collection.

TomOpus 06-14-07 05:50 PM


Originally Posted by thomkai
I really wish I could change the thread title because I think a lot of people aren't reading beyond that.

Don't let 'em get to ya. Some will not read the entire thread before posting. Best thing to do is just shrug it off. But I understand what you meant about being excited to see a nice collection and then being face-to-face with something you'd see at a garage sale :D


Originally Posted by thomkai
Random weird stuff that I don't imagine ever saying, "I want to buy Josie and the Pussycats" (but to be fair I have a GIANT poster of them on my wall, which I got from a friend at a theater. I just like how big it is :P)

Ok... I have a "Josie and the Pussycats" poster and I honestly can't remember where I got it from. It has their autographs printed on the poster. I'm sure I still it rolled up somewhere among the dozens of others.

The Eliminator 06-14-07 06:20 PM


Originally Posted by DVD-ho78(DTS)
I will not trust someone's movie recommendations if they own You've Got Mail in their collection.

How dare you.

DoubleDownAgain 06-14-07 06:22 PM


Originally Posted by DVD-ho78(DTS)
I can see where you are coming from. Personally, I own the first Matrix and all the Star Wars films and consider them good entertainment, however, like yourself, I will not trust someone's movie recommendations if they own The Scorpion King or You've Got Mail in their collection.

Ouch! I have both of those... :( But I got both of them cheap... does that count for anything?

thomkai 06-14-07 06:40 PM


Originally Posted by Joel Goodsen
I always find it interesting to look at other peoples collections but I never pass judgment too harsh. I have a huge variety of taste in films. I own Kickboxer, Leprechaun, Drop Dead Fred, American Graffiti, Friday the 13th...even the Bloodfist collection with the one and only Don THE DRAGON Wilson. But then I also own films like Lost In Translation, Casino, Goodfellas, Ghost World, Y Tu Mama Tambien, Beautiful Girls and One Flew Over The Cuckoos Nest.

When my DVDs are jumbled about abit, it doesnt worry me if anyone was to see Captain Ron next to The Godfather.

I just wish I had seen a Godfather next to one of his Captain Rons (figuratively speaking). He just didn't seem to have much of anything of substance. I'm going to have to look again though, perhaps I just missed some stuff. Wish it wasn't mostly VHS cause it's simply hard to look through for me.

Thanks TomOpus for the encouraging words (as well as the few others with kind words). Don't know why this got to me. Hopefully I can just shrug this off before work in an hour.

Oh... and I didn't wanna mention this but I own Star Wars and The Matrix. I bought Star Wars when the tin was released and I think it's a really cool package, and The Matrix I bought from CC for $20 on hd-dvd... although I still don't have a player for it. So I suppose for some my opinions are null and void anyway :P I don't really care for the last two matrix films, but $20 for the set was outrageous.

Did just receive Almost Famous Bootleg Cut today, which I am very proud to finally add to my collection.

harpo787 06-14-07 06:47 PM


Originally Posted by DoubleDownAgain
I own all the SW and Matrix movies, so does that my opinion is nullified on every genre of film?

No, however I must question your capability of continuity when you own sequels but not the original films (American Pie 2 & 3, but no part 1?.....Bad Boys 2 but no part 1!??!). Tsk tsk.

DoubleDownAgain 06-14-07 06:50 PM

All in good time! In fact I just ordered American Pie: Ultimate Edition - Unrated Version (1999) today at DD. I'll get Bad Boys sooner or later, actually Bad Boys II was a blind buy that I got a good deal on.

harpo787 06-14-07 06:58 PM

Oh my god! A blind buy of a Martin Lawrence film!?!? Anyone who has Martin Lawrence films in their collection are CLEARLY morons/idiots/humanoids!

Oh wait...I've got Blue Streak and just picked up National Security recently...not to mention I'll also pick both Bad Boys flicks at some point. Oh yeah, and while I don't own them, I was amused by the following: Big Momma's House, Black Knight, Nothing to Lose and of course his TV show. Nevermind......

DoubleDownAgain 06-14-07 07:02 PM

Big Momma's house? Sorry, but I'm afraid you have to go on ignore now.

PopcornTreeCt 06-14-07 07:36 PM

I can kinda agree with the OP. I wouldn't say ashamed is the right word. If I go over a friends house I certainly look forward to seeing their collection. I hope to see some gem that I overlooked. I've seen a few peoples' collections that made me go "huh?" but they're still friends, just not friends I talk about movies with.

tylergfoster 06-14-07 07:54 PM

If someone was really my friend, of course, I'd let it go, but frankly I'd be MORE embarrassed to go to someone's house and see a collection with nothing but foreign, avant-garde art films because I'd have to say I have more of a problem with people who can't take a break and watch an Adam Sandler movie than someone who owns all the Friday the 13th films.

MisterHowie 06-14-07 10:11 PM

I feel more pity for their collections.... :)

gryffinmaster 06-14-07 10:48 PM


Originally Posted by MisterHowie
I feel more pity for their collections.... :)

http://roozle.com/table_files/Pity.jpg


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