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Old 10-13-07, 01:46 AM   #1
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Was this a one night stand?

I met this amazing girl a few weeks ago and we exchanged numbers. We made plans to hang out at some point and I told her I was thinking about seeing Darjeeling Limited which she also had interest in seeing. So we made plans to go see it afterwards we got dinner and talked and found we have a lot of stuff in common. About a week later I called her and invited her to a party and she wanted to go. Midway throught the party we began kissing and eventually it led to us rushing back to my apt. We hooked up then she called her roommate who she said was sick. After the sex she was telling me she had to go. I thought it went well. So I tried to text her a few days later. No response. I want to play it cool because I don't want to fuck up my chances of it happening again. I'm thinking maybe she's on her period or something or maybe I should move on. We had so much in common so its weird but I'm thinking maybe a relationship would have developed. Any thoughts.
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Old 10-13-07, 01:53 AM   #2
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I say call her a few days after you sent the text. Leave a message if she doesn't pick up. If you get no call back, just let it go.
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Old 10-13-07, 01:55 AM   #3
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How long ago did you text her? Perhaps she didn't get it? Give her a call. Once. If she doesn't pick up, leave her a VM telling her you would like to see her again. If she doesn't respond to that, then yes, it was a one night stand.
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Old 10-13-07, 01:55 AM   #4
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Well, first of all Romeo, maybe calling a woman you just banged rather than texting her would score you more points in the class department.

But other than that, I think she's trying to tell you the sex was really, really awful.
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Old 10-13-07, 02:00 AM   #5
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I'm thinking maybe she's on her period or something or maybe I should move on.



Yeah, she doesn't want to return your text or talk to you because of her period.
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Old 10-13-07, 02:03 AM   #6
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It was a one time thing,leave her alone if she wants to see you again she will call you.If you keep calling or texting her ,she will think your a stalker.
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Old 10-13-07, 02:09 AM   #7
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Old 10-13-07, 02:12 AM   #8
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But other than that, I think she's trying to tell you the sex was really, really awful.
No way during the sex she said and i quote "You're really good". But I was doing oral.
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Old 10-13-07, 02:23 AM   #9
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Old 10-13-07, 02:30 AM   #10
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No way during the sex she said and i quote "You're really good". But I was doing oral.
and how many times do men say "yeah baby,i love you" just to get what they want....sorry to burst your bubble but women also say things they don't mean during sex.

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Old 10-13-07, 03:04 AM   #11
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No way during the sex she said and i quote "You're really good". But I was doing oral.
Did she also say "I never do things like this !!" or "This is my first time." ???

Eh...as others said, a call would have been better... preferably the next day or so after banging her... but give her one call as suggested and see what happens. But maybe she got her curiosity satisfied and isn't interested in another round.
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Old 10-13-07, 03:36 AM   #12
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The rule is don't contact a woman more than twice the amount that she contacts you. You've got a combination of two text messages / phone calls / emails. Use them wisely!
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Old 10-13-07, 03:52 AM   #13
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No way during the sex she said and i quote "You're really good". But I was doing oral.
If you were really good she wouldn't have been able to form complete words.
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Old 10-13-07, 06:06 AM   #14
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Yeah, she doesn't want to return your text or talk to you because of her period.
This is the comment I was going to make. If you were that "really good", she would be calling YOU before you could even call her, nevermind her having her period.

As for what the problem was, maybe she saw that you're living with an 18 year old, and realized that meant too much drama?
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Old 10-13-07, 06:12 AM   #15
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Old 10-13-07, 06:15 AM   #16
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Dude, you got lucky and broke a piece off for free. No emotions, no spending all your money on her, and no "drama".

Pray she didn't give you The Clap or Herpes and move on....
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Old 10-13-07, 06:42 AM   #17
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No way during the sex she said and i quote "You're really good". But I was doing oral.
Sounds like you should have stuck with the oral and skipped the written.
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Old 10-13-07, 06:44 AM   #18
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We hooked up then she called her roommate who she said was sick. After the sex she was telling me she had to go.
Did she call her roommate before or after the sex? And why was she calling her roommate? I'm trying to visualize this.. you hook up at a party.. you're all over each other.. you both go back to your place.. I'm assuming you're all over each other there (??) and she stops to call her roommate? Or did she do that in place of pillow talk after the sex? You obviously didn't have her full attention. That says a lot.

And for the love of God! Stop the text-messaging! Pick up a LAND LINE telephone and make a call and have a normal conversation!!
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Old 10-13-07, 06:59 AM   #19
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1: If she could form a sentence, you was doing it wrong.

2: If you done it right, she'd call you and not rush off.
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Old 10-13-07, 07:45 AM   #20
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Text messages are for kids! That may be why she's not calling you back. Be a man & pick up the phone. Nothing could be more impersonal than a frookin text message!

Please tell me you didn't text message something like this:

U rck! call if U wnt sm mre sausg!!!
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Old 10-13-07, 08:12 AM   #21
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I agree with the 1 call. Unless she's 14, forget the text. If she is 14...
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Old 10-13-07, 09:52 AM   #22
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Sounds like you missed your opportunity to yell "Smell my face!!!"
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Old 10-13-07, 10:18 AM   #23
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Unless you get another chance to dip your wick into that sweet honey clam, then yes, it was a one night stand.
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Old 10-13-07, 10:24 AM   #24
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If it looked anything like this then it was a one nightstand.

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Old 10-13-07, 10:45 AM   #25
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This is sounding like the old Dorothy Parker "Oh, please, God, let him call!" thing, only in drag.

Congratulations. Now you know how every woman in America has felt once or twice in her life.
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