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Old 01-07-06, 07:35 PM   #1
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YAGT: Sleeping over question

My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 2 and half years. She's 23 and I'm 26. She refuses to stay at my place over night (we are having sex though). Is it just me or does this seem odd? It's not like she's religious or something. I'm just not sure what to think.

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Old 01-07-06, 07:39 PM   #2
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Her other boyfriend gets jealous if she doesn't sleep there.

My personal opinion is that she has some maturity issues, commitment issues, and/or trust issues.

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Old 01-07-06, 07:41 PM   #3
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Or your place is a dirty sty.
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Old 01-07-06, 07:46 PM   #4
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Or your place is a dirty sty.
This is a possibility you have to consider. Think hard...does you're shower look like this?

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Old 01-07-06, 07:48 PM   #5
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This is a possibility you have to consider. Think hard...does you're shower look like this?

Nah...it's clean. Even she thinks so
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Old 01-07-06, 07:52 PM   #6
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Does she let you stay over at her place?
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Old 01-07-06, 07:58 PM   #7
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Where does she live? Are there any dissapproving type people who would wonder about her not showing up one night/morning?

Also, does she take a lot to get ready? Some women have morning rituals that seem to require a lot of cosmetic products, specific soaps and shampoos, and various electrical equpiment and accessories. It would take a lot of planning to spend a night.

Some just require their own toothbrush and clean towels, which, by the way, you could go ahead and get for her as an extra hint.
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Old 01-07-06, 07:59 PM   #8
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No, it's not that odd ... just curious. Why not just ask her? If you want, I can have sex with her and ask why she's in such a rush when she starts to leave ...
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Old 01-07-06, 08:06 PM   #9
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Does she let you stay over at her place?
Yeah, this is the key. Sometimes people just can't sleep well at someone else's house (either because of how you have your place set up, or because she just can't sleep well unless in her own bed), and sometimes it's even that they can't sleep well with someone else sharing the bed with them, no matter where they sleep... I have had a couple of gal friends who've told me that was the unexpected adjustment to getting married, having to share a bed with a guy. If she's a light sleeper, she'll never get sleep at someone else's place, with someone else in the bed.

So if she's willing to let you sleep over at her place, it might be something about wanting to sleep in her own bed or something about your place that doesn't work for her. If she doesn't ever want you to sleep over, it might just be that she's more comfortable sleeping alone.
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Old 01-07-06, 08:10 PM   #10
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Old 01-07-06, 08:19 PM   #11
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Yet Another Girl (or Girlfriend) Thread.
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Old 01-07-06, 08:20 PM   #12
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How about asking her instead of us? How the hell should we know?

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Old 01-07-06, 08:24 PM   #13
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Heh, and I used to try to find girls like that. Get the job done and get out.
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Old 01-07-06, 08:31 PM   #14
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Maybe she doesn't like your breakfast of cornflakes and beer.
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Old 01-07-06, 09:14 PM   #15
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[insert the obiligatory "I dunno, she stays over at my place all the time" response here]

Question...does she perhaps live with her parents?
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Old 01-07-06, 10:22 PM   #16
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Maybe she snores or talks in her sleep and doesn't want you to know about it.
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Old 01-07-06, 11:30 PM   #19
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All joking aside.

I hate to say it.

+ several other local sayings.

I would gander she just isn't really in to you. Sorry.
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Old 01-07-06, 11:43 PM   #20
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I knew a chick in college that had this problem, she'd get drunk and piss the bed, so she never stayed a t aguys place...
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Sounds like you get a freebie!
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Old 01-08-06, 07:44 AM   #22
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She's just using you for sex.
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Old 01-08-06, 11:40 AM   #25
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When you say she refuses to stay over, does that mean that you ask and she says no? Does she give any reason why?
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