My girl friend dumped me for another guy on New Years Eve

[blaineo]

I live in VA she lives in TX. She called me and dumped me at 11:45 PM How should I deal with this Im pretty torn up. I knew that she was seeing somebody else she told me about 2 weeks before Xmas. At that time I said that maybe we should split and she insisted no. but the next two weeks got progressively worse. How should I handle this.

[BigPete]

Just say to yourself, "****ing bitch" and then go about life as usual.

[TomOpus]

I've never been a big fan of long distance relationships... I know some work out, though.

Try not to dwell on things with her. Her timing really sucks and it's probably just as well things ended now. You have a new year to look forward to.

For now, do things for yourself. Don't jump into another relationship too soon. After a few months start looking around locally.

[Giantrobo]

dude, move on she's someone else's <b>problem</b>

You are free again and it's a new year. Someone HOTTER, NICER, and BETTER for you is out there waiting for you.

[nazz]

Calling you and telling you at 11:45 PM on New Years's Eve is heartless. Even though it may not seem like it right now you're better off without someone who would do that to you.

[das Monkey]

If she'd break up with you at 11:45 PM on New Year's Eve, she's not worth your time. Breakups suck, but almost all of them are for the best. Be happy you can start the year fresh and take comfort in the knowledge that you've just avoided a potentially bad longterm relationship. And watch some football!!

das

[Thunderball]

My e-friend,

You don't need that shit. Don't worry about it.

Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks I believe is the correct line :)

[twikoff]

new year
fresh start
bitch gone

:up:

[Thor Simpson]

Never an easy thing, and it certainly doesn't sound like she tried to make it any easier. You're so much better off without her.

Best of luck in the New Year... hopefully you find someone who won't run around on you, but realize you don't really need anyone right this minute. Give it some time, have fun with some friends. Try not to let your thoughts dwell on it too much (hard, I know). She's not worth the time.

[blaineo]

thanks for all your suport.

[speedy1961]

Good luck. Best of luck to you in 2004.

[KnightLerxst]

Probably will be one of the best things that ever happened to you. Hindsight is 20/20...you should have just fully given her the axe when she told you she was seeing someone else, but I digress.

You will find someone much better than that selfish whore.

[Groucho]

Ask for "one last hookup" and during, pee in her butt.

[DarthVong]

Originally posted by Groucho
Ask for "one last hookup" and during, pee in her butt.

Better yet, pee in her shoes and hand her a Burnt Sienna crayon.

[DVD Polizei]

Make her some "break-up brownies". :D

She seems like a fluffcake. 11:45PM? Obviously wanted to wash her hands. Well, make her some Breakup Brownies, mixed with your loving ingredients.

[nevermind]

Originally posted by Groucho
Ask for "one last hookup" and during, pee in her butt.

Then shit on her forehead and consider it a job well done and wipe your hands of this bitch for good.





Hang in there blaineo :)

[DVD Polizei]

This is starting to sound like a prison.

[Buford T Pusser]

You are much better off. It always seems bad when it happens but later it will seem like a good thing.

[Tommy Ceez]

Hey, at least you dont sleep in a bunk bed. Life can always be looked apon as positive when you have that going for you.

[Jack Straw]

If nothing else, just take comfort in the fact that you're in Virginia and she's in Texas.

[kenny79]

Where in Texas is she?

You know, just for curiosity's sake. ;)

[Mad Dawg]

Originally posted by kenny79
Where in Texas is she?

You know, just for curiosity's sake. ;)

Yeah, I'm sure that many of your fellow Otters in Texas will be more than happy to deliver a flaming bag of poo to her doorstep.

[Alyoshka]

I had a girl break up with me the day before Valentines day. Best thing to do is get over it. Also, I'm willing to deliver the flaming poo if you wish.

[pro-bassoonist]

11.45pm????????????????????

Talking about a nasty end!!! Wow....I dont think she really liked you then. Anyhow....move on....smile....and look for a local girl.

Good luck!!

[DRG]

I hope you weren't with her for too long, but even so you are better off. I've been dumped some rotten ways before (one ended a three month relationship by putting a note on my car while I was at work), but this takes the cake.

She has proven to be a completely selfish person by 1) denying you the honorable split two weeks ago even though she was eyeing other guys, and 2) picking one of the most inopportune times to drop the bad news, which seems like it was timed so she could go hook up with some dude guilt-free. Likely so she could clear her conscience with no concern for your actual feelings. You're rid of her now. Just concentrate on the shitty things she did and remember that whatever good traits she had can be found in someone else.

[Jackskeleton]

Long distance relationship.. uh yeah.. Your better off without her if she was just going to go and cheat on you. Like tweaky said.. New year, Fresh start, go enjoy life.

Being single is something you need to enjoy, not be bummed about. :p

[schizopak]

Originally posted by DarthBong
Better yet, pee in her shoes and hand her a Burnt Sienna crayon.

hey! i am the proud owner of Burnt Sienna. Don't go passing him off to some shoe peeing wacko! :D

[icondude]

Sounds to me like she wanted to make the breakup official, before she slept with the new guy.

[Bushdog]

Well, these sound like fairly young people. I'm guessing she wanted to start the new year with the new guy. Not to mention that she's probably a lightweight who was drunk when she called.

[NCMojo]

OK, this needs to be a new Otter rule. If your wife or girlfriend dumps you or cheats on you, you need to post their picture here on the forum so we can all have fun Photochopping her and making fun of her.

On a related topic... men, be sure to take at least one naked picture of your significant other at some point, even if you're in a loving and commited relationship. With some women, you just never know...

Note to wife -- I kid, I kid! I just bought that night-vision camera for the Halloween photos. Seriously! That red light just means that it is recharging! Honest!

[blaineo]

She's 45 Im 42

[Alyoshka]

Originally posted by blaineo
She's 45 Im 42

Sounds like your a lot better off without her as there was nothing mature about her actions. Get out there and have some fun; you've been given a fresh start.

[Tommy_Harn]

In her defense, she lives in Texas. For her, it was actually only 9:45 . . .

. . . feel better?

[shumway]

It would have been 10:45, only 1 hour between EST and CST, and, I would hope at 45, she would actually know the difference between the 2 timezones when she decided to place that call. As everyone has been saying, good luck, and, you can do better.

[Bushdog]

Originally posted by Alyoshka
Sounds like your a lot better off without her as there was nothing mature about her actions. Get out there and have some fun; you've been given a fresh start. :up: This behavior is childish.

[Hiro11]

I recommend "Heartbreaker" by Led Zep at maximum volume for three days straight, minimum. Then I recommend a sultry, willing young lass with flashing eyes and a risque mouth.

[LiquidSky]

That is rough. But as others have said: you are better off without someone who is cold enough to break up with you on New Year's Eve.

[blaineo]

What this dog forgot to tell you is he has a family living with him that he claims he loves. He is a dirty dog, do not feel sorry for him!!

[TomOpus]

-confused-

[brizz]

somebody done got hacked!

[Trigger]

:lol: :lol: :lol: Oh damn! BUSTED!

[ChiTownAbs, Inc]

O\/\/ |\| 3 [)

[El Scorcho]

bahahah this thread almost 4 months later, suddenly comes back from the dead and becomes archive worthy!

[MJKTool]

so 2 cheaters?

[hahn]

rotfl Ouch! Note to self: clear your cache regularly. Guess we also learned a lesson - take these relationship stories with a grain of salt; there's always two sides. rotfl

[MJKTool]

Originally posted by blaineo
What this dog forgot to tell you is he has a family living with him that he claims he loves. He is a dirty dog, do not feel sorry for him!!

saved

[TomOpus]

I hope she's not going to post naked pics of him in Mature now...

[X]

How's the car smelling?

http://www.dvdtalk.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&postid=4347366#post4347366

[shaun3000]

Ouch

[MonkeyG]

rotfl

I was wondering why this thread was revived.

[eedoon]

I missed this thread when it comes out but this is just :lol:

[Suprmallet]

Best.

Thread.

Ever.

[Suprmallet]

Oh, and of course:

http://www.hardcoreware.net/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=7982&stc=1

[Trigger]

What an a-hole thing to do... he deserves a Bobbit Special. *snip snip* At the very least, she should sleep with his best friend.

[kenny79]

Awesome.

Just ... just awesome.

God bless Al Gore for inventing this thing.

[mkdevo]

:lol: too funny!!

[Bushdog]

Originally posted by blaineo
What this dog forgot to tell you is he has a family living with him that he claims he loves. He is a dirty dog, do not feel sorry for him!! bwahahahahahahaha

[Venusian]

so the wife found this thread?

[blaineo]

yes, the wife did find this thread and lots of other dirt!

[Bushdog]

That was unexpected. Well, I hope you get him for this, but most especially he needs to get punished for gross stupidity.

[jadasion]

Originally posted by blaineo
yes, the wife did find this thread and lots of other dirt!

so really what kind of "cat" smell did you have to get rid of?

[Venusian]

Originally posted by jadasion
so really what kind of "cat" smell did you have to get rid of? :lol:

[Tarantino]

wtf!

[waporvare]

I'd say it's funny but for you Mrs. Pissed Off I guess it isn't. Or you're blaineo with a split personality. ;)

Did you find this before or after you broke up, or was all of this a surprise? Or were you suspicious of him cheating?

[jdodd]

AWE.

SOME.

[Tommy_Harn]

History has been made on these boards today!

[Vryce]

:lol:

Let me see if I got this.

This guy has a family and an internet girl friend in Texas?
The girl in Texas breaks things off.
The wife finds thread and other info and makes it known she knows.

Classic.

I feel sorry for the family for having to go through this.

[Tommy_Harn]

Originally posted by Vryce
:lol:

Let me see if I got this.

This guy has a family and an internet girl friend in Texas?
The girl in Texas breaks things off.
The wife finds thread and other info and makes it known she knows.


We're not sure if it is actually his wife, or if it is Girlfriend #1 and he is living with her and her family.

The rest sounds right.

[Vryce]

Originally posted by Tommy_Harn
We're not sure if it is actually his wife, or if it is Girlfriend #1 and he is living with her and her family.

The rest sounds right.

Ahhh.. that is true.

I guess I assumed it was a wife, though one of the posts did say wife. But it could very well be a live-in girlfriend and her family. Either way, doesn't sound like the guy is very bright to cover his tracks. And the wife/gf knows where to look if she suspects things.

Not a nice situation all around, but I guess I'd rather find things out instead of thinking everything is okay.

[FiveO]

rotfl

classic.

[Venusian]

Originally posted by blaineo
yes, the wife did find this thread and lots of other dirt!

read above...looks like the wife found it...but he's back in control of his account.


how'd she find it? you have it bookmarked or something?

[heimerSWT]

Tell us more about all the other dirt!

[Venusian]

did she find your thread about anal sex? ;)

[PixyJunket]

Solid gold baby.

[blaineo]

and where would that thread be

[Dah-Dee]

Originally posted by blaineo
and where would that thread be

-eek-

[Prakis]

bwahahahaha, this is getting better! :lol:

[Roto]

Originally posted by Venusian
read above...looks like the wife found it...but he's back in control of his account.

It doesn't sound like he's back in control of anything!

[Venusian]

Originally posted by blaineo
and where would that thread be oops, am i getting him in more trouble? :lol:

the anal sex thread was by someone else here who got "caught" by their mom...old news.


but we want details... how'd you catch him?

[Kicker_of_Elves]

Originally posted by blaineo
and where would that thread be

Click the search thingy above your name to see EVERYTHING he's ever posted!

http://engineering.outpost10f.com/~media/sp/smiley/evil/13.gif

[Bushdog]

Originally posted by Venusian
read above...looks like the wife found it...but he's back in control of his account.


how'd she find it? you have it bookmarked or something? What makes you think he's back in control, copernicus?

[Dah-Dee]

Originally posted by blaineo
http://www.fotosearch.com/comp/RBL/RBL129/C4_10.jpg
"and where would that thread be"


:whofart:

[RandyC]

Blaineo, you need to update your mail. It seems your account is not valid.

[blaineo]

ok guys ..here is more dirt
how I found out was through his old cell phone that he gave to me Upon looking for a number I found her labeled under "my heart" so I called the number and low and behold it was another women so being the pissed off bitch I looked further. Found out he sent her flowers Christmas and New Years.. All this time he was pretending to love only me and his family. So he wants another chance. What do you think?

[Venusian]

how'd you find this site and this thread though?

[steebo777]

Dude............

.............this is so fu**in awesome rotfl

[Kicker_of_Elves]

Buy him a beer and then kick him in the nuts.

[Roto]

Depends on a lot of things, like how things were before you found out. Let him plead his case and decide for yourself. If you didn't have kids then it'd probably be an easy decision.

[Oraphus]

you should get your revenge by sleeping with me ;)

[blaineo]

I found it because I am trained in CIA investigations. j/k

[DVD Josh]

Let me make this clear - he was upset when his girlfriend broke up with him. Keep saying that to yourself. You'll know what to do then.

[jdodd]

Originally posted by DVD Josh
Let me make this clear - he was upset when his girlfriend broke up with him. Keep saying that to yourself. You'll know what to do then.
...and he was so hurt that the girlfriend was seeing someone else that he wanted to split up with her.

I'm all for second chances (I've been given my share of them in the past), but this doesn't look good for ol' blaineo.

[PixyJunket]

Originally posted by DVD Josh
Let me make this clear - he was upset when his girlfriend broke up with him. Keep saying that to yourself. You'll know what to do then. Daaamn.. that's hardcore. :lol:

[brizz]

what do I think?

I think you should dump his sorry ass...but not before posting really really embarrassing shit about him here and everywhere else you can on the internet.

but we're still dying to know how you got to this particular thread....and all you have to do to see every thing he's ever posted here is to hit that "profile" link above your posts...

this rules!!!!!!!!

[X]

Are you two just alternating at the keyboard and posting here?

[Roto]

Originally posted by X
Are you two just alternating at the keyboard and posting here?
:lol: Little late for April Fools though.

[talemyn]

Man do I like her style! :lol: Mrs. blaineo . . . PLEASE get your own username and join us!

[Bandoman]

Otter Farm is a harsh mistress.

rotfl

[Trigger]

Originally posted by blaineo
ok guys ..here is more dirt
how I found out was through his old cell phone that he gave to me Upon looking for a number I found her labeled under "my heart" so I called the number and low and behold it was another women so being the pissed off bitch I looked further. Found out he sent her flowers Christmas and New Years.. All this time he was pretending to love only me and his family. So he wants another chance. What do you think? I don't think you should give him another chance... Unless you have no respect for yourself... or unless he's fantastically rich and good looking and you're some sort of cow or something. Otherwise, yeah - you need to move on cuz that's really disrespectful. It's not like it was just some ho he squeezed off a round in either, this was someone he cheated on you emotionally with her.

[brizz]

what kind of a moron lists his mistresses number on his cell phone under "My Heart"??!?!? And what kind of completely stupid moron then gives said phone to his wife without clearing out said number?!??!?!??

[hahn]

Originally posted by kicker_of_elves
Buy him a beer and then kick him in the nuts.
Or kick him in the nuts and buy yourself a beer. ;)

[MJKTool]

Originally posted by brizz
what kind of a moron lists his mistresses number on his cell phone under "My Heart"??!?!? And what kind of completely stupid moron then gives said phone to his wife without clearing out said number?!??!?!??

Mr. blaineo :lol:

[steebo777]

Originally posted by hahn
Or kick him in the nuts and buy yourself a beer. ;)
Better yet... kick him in the nuts, take his money, buy yourself a beer, slam the beer, then break the mug over his sorry head :D

[leepyswetr]

Originally posted by blaineo
What do you think? I think you are blaineo, and you're trolling. Am I right?

[MJKTool]

Did he leave his computer behind or something? How in the hell were you able to find this site, letalone this thread! :eek:

[Bandoman]

And how was he simultaneously posting in his tax deductions thread while his wife was (allegedly) posting under his name in this thread?

[jdodd]

The tax deductions thread was from January.

[Bandoman]

Aaaaaah, that explains it, then. Carry on. :)

[suziq999]

I smell a Shaggy.

[LurkerDan]

I call shenanigans.

[brizz]

Zoinks!!

http://www.bbc.co.uk/threecounties/films/images/scooby_doo150.jpg

[LurkerDan]

Then again, he does reference the wifey in this post: http://www.dvdtalk.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&postid=4347366#post4347366 posted a few weeks before this thread. -eek-

[Maxwell Smart]

Originally posted by LurkerDan
I call shenanigans.

Hey farva, what's that place you always go eat with all the goofy shit on the wall?

[Roto]

Originally posted by MJKTool
Did he leave his computer behind or something? How in the hell were you able to find this site, letalone this thread! :eek:
It was probably in his favorites or his history, had a cookie to automatically log him in and you can search by user names for anything he's ever posted.

If it is a fake, I still don't think it's blaineo posting anymore. It's either all true or someone is pulling a prank on blaineo, and in either case it's your Otter doody to play along! Personally, I think it's true.

[blaineo]

And the bust of it is he tried to lie about it.

[Bandoman]

Originally posted by blaineo
And the bust of it ...

Pics?

[Venusian]

you didnt explain how you found the forum/thread

[Minor Threat]

I'm confused...............

















shaggy?

[blaineo]

It was easy to find the forum, all you do is type in the name in search and press-do. All of his information was at my finger tips.

It is a damn shame that a partner has to go through this, it would be nice to trust the person that claims he loves you and still claims this....gee am I wondering what would of happened if she did end their Texas love affair.

[El Scorcho]

Are you hot?

[Venusian]

i thought she did...? now i'm confused.


so you know his username or something?

[Venusian]

Originally posted by El Scorcho
Are you hot? page 5???

i thought as soon as she asked if she should dump him, we'd have a request for pics before we could decide...you guys are slacking

[DRG]

Now all we need is the mistress to come in here and hijack the account...

Originally posted by blaineo
Hey, the sleazebag didn't even tell me he had a family!

[X]

Originally posted by blaineo
It was easy to find the forum, all you do is type in the name in search and press-do. All of his information was at my finger tips.

It is a damn shame that a partner has to go through this, it would be nice to trust the person that claims he loves you and still claims this....gee am I wondering what would of happened if she did end their Texas love affair. I'll ask again.

Are you both posting from home or are you both in different places when you're both posting in this thread?

[shaun3000]

I think the only person posting is the wife...

[blaineo]

she did dump him, it was suppose to read did not end their affair.

[MJKTool]

This is so confusing.

[El Scorcho]

blaineo's wife --

are you hot or not?

Stop dodging the questions.

[blaineo]

what is so confusing, this guy posted a thread about being dumped by his girlfriend on New Years Eve. When he has a wife and kids. He is a dog and I am pissed!!!

[blaineo]

I have been told I am

[El Scorcho]

do you have pics?

How tig are your bitties?

[Venusian]

your english is as good as danols (you probably dont know who that is).


so did you search for dvdtalk? did you know he frequented it?

[MJKTool]

Originally posted by blaineo
I have been told I am

are you he or she?

[blaineo]

who is danols

[El Scorcho]

dammit i asked you how tig your bitties are

[Trigger]

Originally posted by El Scorcho
dammit i asked you how tig your bitties are I'm sure they're no bigger than yours - don't worry... you still have teh biggest manBoObZ!!!!11!11 :p

[DVD Josh]

Originally posted by blaineo
It was easy to find the forum, all you do is type in the name in search and press-do. All of his information was at my finger tips.



I would guess alot of the problem had to do with a lack of pressing the do button.

[shaun3000]

Originally posted by El Scorcho
dammit i asked you how tig your bitties are rotfl
so so wrong

[X]

Are you both posting from home or are you both in different places when you're both posting in this thread?

[Tarantino]

Are you both posting from home or are you both in different places when you're both posting in this thread?

[Jeremy517]

Originally posted by X
Are you both posting from home or are you both in different places when you're both posting in this thread?

I think that this statement:

Originally posted by blaineo
yes, the wife did find this thread and lots of other dirt!

...was her speaking in third-person, so he hasn't really posted in this thread since January.

[X]

Originally posted by Jeremy517
I think that this statement:
...was her speaking in third-person, so he hasn't really posted in this thread since January. Oh, I see! That one looked like the husband to me.

Funny she wouldn't answer the question but she answers some strange other ones.

[LurkerDan]

Originally posted by X
Oh, I see! That one looked like the husband to me. Damn, I thought you had some inside info based on IP addresses. :lol:

[heimerSWT]

Originally posted by DVD Josh
I would guess alot of the problem had to do with a lack of pressing the do button. :lol:

...or did she mean to type "presto"?

[Pharoh]

:lol:

I am not any less confused than I was before reading this in its entirety, but I am damn_glad I did read it. Classic stuff.

[RandyC]

I feel like I am lacking closure