I live in VA she lives in TX. She called me and dumped me at 11:45 PM How should I deal with this Im pretty torn up. I knew that she was seeing somebody else she told me about 2 weeks before Xmas. At that time I said that maybe we should split and she insisted no. but the next two weeks got progressively worse. How should I handle this.
BigPete
01-01-04, 10:48 AM
Just say to yourself, "****ing bitch" and then go about life as usual.
TomOpus
01-01-04, 10:58 AM
I've never been a big fan of long distance relationships... I know some work out, though.
Try not to dwell on things with her. Her timing really sucks and it's probably just as well things ended now. You have a new year to look forward to.
For now, do things for yourself. Don't jump into another relationship too soon. After a few months start looking around locally.
Giantrobo
01-01-04, 11:10 AM
dude, move on she's someone else's <b>problem</b>
You are free again and it's a new year. Someone HOTTER, NICER, and BETTER for you is out there waiting for you.
nazz
01-01-04, 11:11 AM
Calling you and telling you at 11:45 PM on New Years's Eve is heartless. Even though it may not seem like it right now you're better off without someone who would do that to you.
das Monkey
01-01-04, 11:14 AM
If she'd break up with you at 11:45 PM on New Year's Eve, she's not worth your time. Breakups suck, but almost all of them are for the best. Be happy you can start the year fresh and take comfort in the knowledge that you've just avoided a potentially bad longterm relationship. And watch some football!!
das
Thunderball
01-01-04, 11:23 AM
My e-friend,
You don't need that shit. Don't worry about it.
Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks I believe is the correct line :)
twikoff
01-01-04, 11:26 AM
new year
fresh start
bitch gone
:up:
Thor Simpson
01-01-04, 11:32 AM
Never an easy thing, and it certainly doesn't sound like she tried to make it any easier. You're so much better off without her.
Best of luck in the New Year... hopefully you find someone who won't run around on you, but realize you don't really need anyone right this minute. Give it some time, have fun with some friends. Try not to let your thoughts dwell on it too much (hard, I know). She's not worth the time.
blaineo
01-01-04, 11:48 AM
thanks for all your suport.
speedy1961
01-01-04, 12:06 PM
Good luck. Best of luck to you in 2004.
KnightLerxst
01-01-04, 12:30 PM
Probably will be one of the best things that ever happened to you. Hindsight is 20/20...you should have just fully given her the axe when she told you she was seeing someone else, but I digress.
You will find someone much better than that selfish whore.
Groucho
01-01-04, 12:34 PM
Ask for "one last hookup" and during, pee in her butt.
DarthVong
01-01-04, 12:49 PM
Originally posted by Groucho
Ask for "one last hookup" and during, pee in her butt.
Better yet, pee in her shoes and hand her a Burnt Sienna crayon.
DVD Polizei
01-01-04, 01:01 PM
Make her some "break-up brownies". :D
She seems like a fluffcake. 11:45PM? Obviously wanted to wash her hands. Well, make her some Breakup Brownies, mixed with your loving ingredients.
nevermind
01-01-04, 01:27 PM
Originally posted by Groucho
Ask for "one last hookup" and during, pee in her butt.
Then shit on her forehead and consider it a job well done and wipe your hands of this bitch for good.
Hang in there blaineo :)
DVD Polizei
01-01-04, 01:32 PM
This is starting to sound like a prison.
Buford T Pusser
01-01-04, 01:35 PM
You are much better off. It always seems bad when it happens but later it will seem like a good thing.
Tommy Ceez
01-01-04, 02:13 PM
Hey, at least you dont sleep in a bunk bed. Life can always be looked apon as positive when you have that going for you.
Jack Straw
01-01-04, 02:26 PM
If nothing else, just take comfort in the fact that you're in Virginia and she's in Texas.
kenny79
01-01-04, 02:31 PM
Where in Texas is she?
You know, just for curiosity's sake. ;)
Mad Dawg
01-01-04, 02:47 PM
Originally posted by kenny79
Where in Texas is she?
You know, just for curiosity's sake. ;)
Yeah, I'm sure that many of your fellow Otters in Texas will be more than happy to deliver a flaming bag of poo to her doorstep.
Alyoshka
01-01-04, 02:55 PM
I had a girl break up with me the day before Valentines day. Best thing to do is get over it. Also, I'm willing to deliver the flaming poo if you wish.
pro-bassoonist
01-01-04, 03:18 PM
11.45pm????????????????????
Talking about a nasty end!!! Wow....I dont think she really liked you then. Anyhow....move on....smile....and look for a local girl.
Good luck!!
DRG
01-01-04, 03:41 PM
I hope you weren't with her for too long, but even so you are better off. I've been dumped some rotten ways before (one ended a three month relationship by putting a note on my car while I was at work), but this takes the cake.
She has proven to be a completely selfish person by 1) denying you the honorable split two weeks ago even though she was eyeing other guys, and 2) picking one of the most inopportune times to drop the bad news, which seems like it was timed so she could go hook up with some dude guilt-free. Likely so she could clear her conscience with no concern for your actual feelings. You're rid of her now. Just concentrate on the shitty things she did and remember that whatever good traits she had can be found in someone else.
Jackskeleton
01-01-04, 03:58 PM
Long distance relationship.. uh yeah.. Your better off without her if she was just going to go and cheat on you. Like tweaky said.. New year, Fresh start, go enjoy life.
Being single is something you need to enjoy, not be bummed about. :p
schizopak
01-01-04, 04:45 PM
Originally posted by DarthBong
Better yet, pee in her shoes and hand her a Burnt Sienna crayon.
hey! i am the proud owner of Burnt Sienna. Don't go passing him off to some shoe peeing wacko! :D
icondude
01-02-04, 10:05 AM
Sounds to me like she wanted to make the breakup official, before she slept with the new guy.
Bushdog
01-02-04, 10:09 AM
Well, these sound like fairly young people. I'm guessing she wanted to start the new year with the new guy. Not to mention that she's probably a lightweight who was drunk when she called.
NCMojo
01-02-04, 10:29 AM
OK, this needs to be a new Otter rule. If your wife or girlfriend dumps you or cheats on you, you need to post their picture here on the forum so we can all have fun Photochopping her and making fun of her.
On a related topic... men, be sure to take at least one naked picture of your significant other at some point, even if you're in a loving and commited relationship. With some women, you just never know...
Note to wife -- I kid, I kid! I just bought that night-vision camera for the Halloween photos. Seriously! That red light just means that it is recharging! Honest!
blaineo
01-02-04, 01:14 PM
She's 45 Im 42
Alyoshka
01-02-04, 01:15 PM
Originally posted by blaineo
She's 45 Im 42
Sounds like your a lot better off without her as there was nothing mature about her actions. Get out there and have some fun; you've been given a fresh start.
Tommy_Harn
01-02-04, 01:56 PM
In her defense, she lives in Texas. For her, it was actually only 9:45 . . .
. . . feel better?
shumway
01-02-04, 02:16 PM
It would have been 10:45, only 1 hour between EST and CST, and, I would hope at 45, she would actually know the difference between the 2 timezones when she decided to place that call. As everyone has been saying, good luck, and, you can do better.
Bushdog
01-02-04, 02:27 PM
Originally posted by Alyoshka
Sounds like your a lot better off without her as there was nothing mature about her actions. Get out there and have some fun; you've been given a fresh start. :up: This behavior is childish.
Hiro11
01-02-04, 02:34 PM
I recommend "Heartbreaker" by Led Zep at maximum volume for three days straight, minimum. Then I recommend a sultry, willing young lass with flashing eyes and a risque mouth.
LiquidSky
01-02-04, 03:13 PM
That is rough. But as others have said: you are better off without someone who is cold enough to break up with you on New Year's Eve.
blaineo
04-28-04, 12:23 AM
What this dog forgot to tell you is he has a family living with him that he claims he loves. He is a dirty dog, do not feel sorry for him!!
TomOpus
04-28-04, 12:31 AM
-confused-
brizz
04-28-04, 12:33 AM
somebody done got hacked!
Trigger
04-28-04, 12:35 AM
:lol: :lol: :lol: Oh damn! BUSTED!
ChiTownAbs, Inc
04-28-04, 12:44 AM
O\/\/ |\| 3 [)
El Scorcho
04-28-04, 01:06 AM
bahahah this thread almost 4 months later, suddenly comes back from the dead and becomes archive worthy!
MJKTool
04-28-04, 01:14 AM
so 2 cheaters?
hahn
04-28-04, 01:18 AM
rotfl Ouch! Note to self: clear your cache regularly. Guess we also learned a lesson - take these relationship stories with a grain of salt; there's always two sides. rotfl
MJKTool
04-28-04, 01:19 AM
Originally posted by blaineo
What this dog forgot to tell you is he has a family living with him that he claims he loves. He is a dirty dog, do not feel sorry for him!!
saved
TomOpus
04-28-04, 01:20 AM
I hope she's not going to post naked pics of him in Mature now...
What an a-hole thing to do... he deserves a Bobbit Special. *snip snip* At the very least, she should sleep with his best friend.
kenny79
04-28-04, 05:35 AM
Awesome.
Just ... just awesome.
God bless Al Gore for inventing this thing.
mkdevo
04-28-04, 07:48 AM
:lol: too funny!!
Bushdog
04-28-04, 07:53 AM
Originally posted by blaineo
What this dog forgot to tell you is he has a family living with him that he claims he loves. He is a dirty dog, do not feel sorry for him!! bwahahahahahahaha
Venusian
04-28-04, 08:02 AM
so the wife found this thread?
blaineo
04-28-04, 08:17 AM
yes, the wife did find this thread and lots of other dirt!
Bushdog
04-28-04, 08:21 AM
That was unexpected. Well, I hope you get him for this, but most especially he needs to get punished for gross stupidity.
jadasion
04-28-04, 08:22 AM
Originally posted by blaineo
yes, the wife did find this thread and lots of other dirt!
so really what kind of "cat" smell did you have to get rid of?
Venusian
04-28-04, 08:26 AM
Originally posted by jadasion
so really what kind of "cat" smell did you have to get rid of? :lol:
Tarantino
04-28-04, 08:49 AM
wtf!
waporvare
04-28-04, 08:56 AM
I'd say it's funny but for you Mrs. Pissed Off I guess it isn't. Or you're blaineo with a split personality. ;)
Did you find this before or after you broke up, or was all of this a surprise? Or were you suspicious of him cheating?
jdodd
04-28-04, 10:01 AM
AWE.
SOME.
Tommy_Harn
04-28-04, 10:22 AM
History has been made on these boards today!
Vryce
04-28-04, 10:23 AM
:lol:
Let me see if I got this.
This guy has a family and an internet girl friend in Texas?
The girl in Texas breaks things off.
The wife finds thread and other info and makes it known she knows.
Classic.
I feel sorry for the family for having to go through this.
Tommy_Harn
04-28-04, 10:29 AM
Originally posted by Vryce
:lol:
Let me see if I got this.
This guy has a family and an internet girl friend in Texas?
The girl in Texas breaks things off.
The wife finds thread and other info and makes it known she knows.
We're not sure if it is actually his wife, or if it is Girlfriend #1 and he is living with her and her family.
The rest sounds right.
Vryce
04-28-04, 10:36 AM
Originally posted by Tommy_Harn
We're not sure if it is actually his wife, or if it is Girlfriend #1 and he is living with her and her family.
The rest sounds right.
Ahhh.. that is true.
I guess I assumed it was a wife, though one of the posts did say wife. But it could very well be a live-in girlfriend and her family. Either way, doesn't sound like the guy is very bright to cover his tracks. And the wife/gf knows where to look if she suspects things.
Not a nice situation all around, but I guess I'd rather find things out instead of thinking everything is okay.
FiveO
04-28-04, 10:36 AM
rotfl
classic.
Venusian
04-28-04, 10:37 AM
Originally posted by blaineo
yes, the wife did find this thread and lots of other dirt!
read above...looks like the wife found it...but he's back in control of his account.
how'd she find it? you have it bookmarked or something?
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